Make someone cum or have someone make you cum?

[bisexualcocklover]

So...I put this question to everyone...men and women...out here. If you had to choose...what would you say is more satisfying (emotionally as well as physically) for you? Is it to make someone you're having sex with cum...or would it be having someone make you cum?

For me...I find it more satisfying to take control of my lover's orgasm and make him or her cum incredibly hard. To know I'm stimulating someone to the point that they can't help but cum is empowering and even flattering.

What do you all think?

[by~his~side]

Giving. No doubt.

~D~

[NJbimale]

Damn, I love her.

[biguy3113]

For me it is making someone cum orally and then us cuming together with penetration!

[DuckiesDarling]

Giving :)

[billc77]

Giving someone an Orgasm is IDEAL for me!

[frontierman2011]

Honestly, when I bring a guy to orgasm with my mouth, I believe I enjoy it probably more than he does, but I'm sure he enjoys it too. I also love bringing women off orally and thoroughly enjoy having a man or woman bring me off. Whether it's individually (him then me), or simultaneously, like in a sixty-nine, really doesn't matter as long as both are satisfied.

[roy m cox]

well most of the time my boy friend makes me cum a lot , seems like every one i ever go with any more wants me to do all the cumming , i have made others cum by playing with them or them giving me a good pounding up the butt will make them cum , i don't suck any more do to mouth problems tho i want to suck a nice penis again i sorta miss doing that :(. how ever i don't mind shooting a lode for my boy friend he like every one els loves the taste of my cum :tong:

[taz321]

My gf is a squirter so I really love making her cum for me, and I am a swallower for men so really really love making them cum for me!! I love to cum, but it makes me happier to make sure my lover either male or female,gets off in our sexual encounters!! :tongue:

[IndyBiFun]

I absolutely find it more satisfying to be a giver. No question for me.

Love to give!

[bijohnmpls]

I would have to say, making other person cum. I am very oral and love to lick a women's pussy until she is twitching and moaning, and sucking a guy until he unloads.

[just4mefc]

Hmmm good question...

I love to make someone cum. I get such pleasure out of their pleasure
:tongue:

Now that I think about it, I guess I like to give or get equally from a woman but like to give slightly more with a man. I love the whole cum explosion you get with a cock.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

I'm afraid I have to agree wholeheartedly with the rest of ya. I Love to make a lover cum...several times if possible! lol I love that little ounce of power...having them under your pleasure quaking and moaning, wanting more and more, feeling that heat rush all thru them, just pure mindless pleasure. To almost be able to Mentally feel the electricity flow over their body, and have them in such a state that when they do cum, its loud, hard and delicious....to both of us. Mental for me, physically for them. :}
And I know that if I do a good job for them, that it'll be my turn in a bit...lol
Cat:bigrin:

[bottom's up]

TO GIVE PLEASURE IS TO RECIEVE PLEASURE

[foreverbi]

I have always been taught & thought it was better to give than than receive.

[Annika L]

I must say that either alone (without the other) leaves me feeling somewhat...errrmm, incomplete and unsatisfied.

[Cman949]

I love to make my partners' cum. There's just something so rewarding about seeing your sweating and flush partner, breathing heavily and trying fruitlessly to contain the feelings that are washing over them. Not to mention that the little feeling of pride and power you feel for giving them such pleasure is its own reward.

However, I'm also not foolish enough to refuse a chance to cum myself when offered it from the right person. ;)

[jem_is_bi]

Yes, I love to work my partner from soft to hard to cumming hard in my mouth!
But, OH, yes that feels so good!!! OOHH YES!!! HERE IT CUMS,YES!!!
OH, GOD YES!!! When, he does the same to me.

Also, I love 69 when I get some of both at the same time.

[coyotedude]

Both are nice. But I absolutely love to bring my partner pleasure. My favorite part of making love to my wife is to watch her achieve orgasm after orgasm on top of me. Everything after that is icing on the cake.

[art0711]

Definitely making someone cum!

[jabor60]

I enjoy both, but I would much rather give than receive. What a pleasure it is to satisfy someone.

[1bimmwis]

If we can't cum together, then I would rather give first....then receive

[fpb09]

I enjoy making them cum, but when both cum same time or not makes me horner when they cum befor me i get off even better! LOVE TO WATCH THEM SCRUM WHEN I DRAIN THEM DRY & MOAN WHEN I SUCK THERE HEAD AFTER WARDS! WHAT FUN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :):bigrin:;)

[agentlemanstouch]

So...I put this question to everyone...men and women...out here. If you had to choose...what would you say is more satisfying (emotionally as well as physically) for you? Is it to make someone you're having sex with cum...or would it be having someone make you cum?

For me...I find it more satisfying to take control of my lover's orgasm and make him or her cum incredibly hard. To know I'm stimulating someone to the point that they can't help but cum is empowering and even flattering.

What do you all think?

I Feel the same way having control on the other person and allowing them to cum when I ready to let them off is awsome

[lizard-lix]

(snip).........I love to cum, but it makes me happier to make sure my lover either male or female,gets off in our sexual encounters!! :tongue:

Exactly! my partner cums first! I can always jack off at the end if I haven't and I need to..

Liz

[MikeyAndSam]

Sam~

It's actually kind of funny; I love to make Mikey cum and he loves to make me cum. We've actually had "games" where we tried to make the other cum first. Nothing is better than seeing his shoulder muscles contract and back arch when he lets loose.


Mikey~

Before I say anything: Yes, I do that. And I like to receive, but making Sam cum usually puts me over if he's not playing with me. Can't say I have never made him cum, really. Then again, he's never failed under normal circumstances either.


~!?

[bisexualcocklover]

It's nice to read all of your replies! It's good to see that we have an abundance of generous lovers on here!

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[islandboy3]

giving a huge orgasm to someone else is where its at, receiving is also wonderful

[cuttin2dachase]

I enjoy giving sexual pleasure and orgasms much more than receiving them, but I have to say that the best sexual encounters occur when my female/ male/couples lovers give as good as she/he/they get!

[rtmac]

giving for sure..probably a direct correlation to those that swallow!

[terri]

i am also one that gets the greatest pleasure from giving. to be on my knees and sucking his cock to the point of orgasm and beyond gives me the thrill that i seek. i enjoy it ever so much more that receiving . i dont know why but that who i am.

[jimisbi]

My priority is to make my partner cum and preferably more than once.

[ohbimale]

Making someone else cum is more satisfying.

[bryan614]

To me it is all about making who i am playing with cum. I try to make sure they have the best time possible. Nothing like seeing that special smile on there face as they go to sleep in my arms

[TrulyMadlyDeeply]

Normally, I love it when my partner cums first. The one eception to this is something I love doing with men. I get extremely turned on by giving head, and love playing with myself while I'm sucking his hard cock. I really love cum too. So I love jacking off while sucking, then when I cum I stop sucking for a minute, move to where I can shoot a massive load all over his hard cock and balls. Then of course I go back to sucking him off but with my juicey hot load dripping all over him. I love it especially when he cums at just about the time I'm done cleaning/licking/sucking my tastey load off him. It's incredibly erotic, and makes me hard again within just a couple of minutes.

[bisexualcocklover]

Nice! VERY nice!

[bisexualcocklover]

Anyone else?

[johne69]

I like to make the person I'm with cum it makes me feel so good. I love the taste of the other persons excitement.

[Realist]

Regarding male partners: I've noticed that over the years, I have converted from being more selfish and wanting to be serviced, to being more interested in pleasing my partners.

Part of that is because of my first lover, who seduced me right after my 14th birthday, only wanted to make me cum. I was so spoiled that I didn't think of anyone else's needs.

The second one wasn't much different, but the third guy was the first person I ever fell in love with. For the first time, I began to want to give as good as I got.

Feminine partners:Again, the first two were not good for several reasons...mostly because of my immaturity. Luckily, my third...and first real girlfriend, was very compatible and we shared a lot of similar desires, as well as being bisexual. With her, I learned to be open, honest and always strive to ensure she enjoyed being with me, as much as I did her.

By that time, I became progressively more interested in my partner's feelings and relationships improved a hundred-fold.

[matutum]

So...I put this question to everyone...men and women...out here. If you had to choose...what would you say is more satisfying (emotionally as well as physically) for you? Is it to make someone you're having sex with cum...or would it be having someone make you cum?

For me...I find it more satisfying to take control of my lover's orgasm and make him or her cum incredibly hard. To know I'm stimulating someone to the point that they can't help but cum is empowering and even flattering.

What do you all think?

i want the person who I am with to walk away with weak knees,and need to take a nap

[bisexualcocklover]

I couldn't have said it better myself! My experience has been quite the same!



Regarding male partners: I've noticed that over the years, I have converted from being more selfish and wanting to be serviced, to being more interested in pleasing my partners.

Part of that is because of my first lover, who seduced me right after my 14th birthday, only wanted to make me cum. I was so spoiled that I didn't think of anyone else's needs.

The second one wasn't much different, but the third guy was the first person I ever fell in love with. For the first time, I began to want to give as good as I got.

Feminine partners:Again, the first two were not good for several reasons...mostly because of my immaturity. Luckily, my third...and first real girlfriend, was very compatible and we shared a lot of similar desires, as well as being bisexual. With her, I learned to be open, honest and always strive to ensure she enjoyed being with me, as much as I did her.

By that time, I became progressively more interested in my partner's feelings and relationships improved a hundred-fold.

[bisexualcocklover]

Me too! ;)


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i want the person who I am with to walk away with weak knees,and need to take a nap

[Bibrutas]

Oh I definitely prefer giving ..... I rembember a busty , 42 year old bisexual woman riding my dick on her sofa screaming as she came and i was amazed !!! I also rember my fren 21 year old French University female student shaking violently after doggy style .... i remember a really well hung , muscular Polish guy ramming my asshole as i lay on my back..... the look on his face :eek: and how he cried out was so flattering ! I love giving orgasms ... giving pleasure is enpowering ....
but i do love getting a girl kneel before me as i jerk off and squirt on her tits ..... but overall im a giver !

[keith1560]

Giving someone an orgasm.

[bisexualcocklover]

Oh I definitely prefer giving ..... I rembember a busty , 42 year old bisexual woman riding my dick on her sofa screaming as she came and i was amazed !!! I also rember my fren 21 year old French University female student shaking violently after doggy style .... i remember a really well hung , muscular Polish guy ramming my asshole as i lay on my back..... the look on his face :eek: and how he cried out was so flattering ! I love giving orgasms ... giving pleasure is enpowering ....
but i do love getting a girl kneel before me as i jerk off and squirt on her tits ..... but overall im a giver !

NICE!!

[sugarplumm]

So...I put this question to everyone...men and women...out here. If you had to choose...what would you say is more satisfying (emotionally as well as physically) for you? Is it to make someone you're having sex with cum...or would it be having someone make you cum?

For me...I find it more satisfying to take control of my lover's orgasm and make him or her cum incredibly hard. To know I'm stimulating someone to the point that they can't help but cum is empowering and even flattering.

What do you all think?

I would have to agree that feeling is unmatched

[justcurious4me]

It's funny... So many people love the giving side... I have to honestly say both for this reason... Call me selfish in a way, but it's worth it... I love giving first, because I know if the person is the type that goes completely wild when they cum, that's gonna make the receiving portion all the more better. Plus, when I finish getting off, that makes me totally crazed to give back all the more wilder... AND THE CIRCLE GOES ON!!! In the end, everyone's satisfied (or has had a heart attack :bigrin::bigrin::bigrin:)... If its 69ing, well then this question is a moot point... Everyone's still satisfied... :tong:

[wrbi01]

I know that when first starting a sexual encounter I am kinda a quick cummer... so I try to please before I get mine... now that being said... I have yet to find a good partner where I live yet and it has been a few years since I have been with a man but I am excited to try again but am afraid I might get used like my last experience with a man.. I got fucked.. he got his... then wasnt in the mood anymore. But I suppose I am a giver first.

[redheadchick]

I love making my girl cum. Having her pull my lips hard to hers as she reaches her peak is a very satisfying feeling. I enjoy cumming for her and I know she enjoys it (although she doesn't like it when it gets all over her fingers), but watching her explode is an amazing sight.

[bunvotey11]

My biggest turnon is watching my partner cum.

I love the face they make, and the sounds they make. So cool that I can do that for them.

[12voltman59]

The way I have always approached sex---both with women and now men--is to be, on the one hand--"the aggressor" (if that is the proper term) --or more accurately--be the one who takes charge---then---to submit to the other person and let them "do with me what they will."

I do find it very "hot" to be submissive with another guy and to let him "take me" or something along those lines, but it was also pretty good to let the ladies I have been with "take charge." The only problem with that--is that some ladies do not feel comfortable taking that role and don't seem to have a knack for it. To me--that is really rather sad---a vestige no doubt of society's long held view that women should not in any way be at all "sexually aggressive" and must be these lumps that sit there while the man "ravishes her" or some BS like that---sex must have been rather boring for millions of people for generations!!!!

I do like that give and take aspect to sex and it does for me--make for the best sexual experiences for all involved. We can be thankful that we do live in a time that women are now more free to express their sexual natures---at least hopefully, in most cases!!

By the same token--that when it comes to sex between men and women---as a man--you no longer are expected to always be the one in charge and have to be some kind of sexpert---you can let you lady "ravish" you now!!

[bim49686]

I love to make my partner cum first,if I cum while doing it ,Kewl,if not I will shortley afterwards.

[DB Forever]

Jumping on the band wagon, it is always more pleasurable to give another person a tremendous orgasm. I feel that is the key to a healthy and active sex life. If your partner has orgasm they will want to come back for more.
Charles

[jshawk52]

Making a partner - male or female - cum is the ultimate. Plus, I don't think there's anything more intimate than having your partner cum in your mouth. I really enjoy that.

[murano2641]

It's all about making my partner cum first...I love making females cum multiple times with minimal time in between orgasms. I love edging a male lover...feeling the orgasm coming and then backing down and pumping it back up again! When I finally cum I'm exhausted...I love that!

[eager4cum]

Never thought about this before but now that I have, I believe making my partner cum is best. I say this because as I thought about it, I realized that very often, when I am making them cum orally, I am so happy, I am close to giggling with happiness.

[LovingJacking]

Please ... let's have both!! At the same time would really be awesome!

[secretasianman]

I could go months without cumming, as long as I was making someone else cum.

[OlderBC1]

Making each other cum as many times as possible before finally orgasming is the best to me. Give as good as you get the best you can as many times/ways as you can. A faceful of pussy juice & a mouthful of man cum!

[cuttin2dachase]

I have to rank as 1st having a male partner make me cum, closely followed by me making him cum. As much as I enjoy sucking cock, I most love the pleasure of having a man who knows what he's doing worshipping and pampering my cock. I've found more often than not that on a 1st time meetup, if I suck a man off first, he's done and he gets up, gets dressed and leaves without satisfying me. That's something I'd never do to a partner. I prefer for my partner to get me off first. I have never failed to return the favor and give as good or better than I got unless all he wanted was get my cum and leave.

[letsgetnasty]

Making someone cum

[Avid_Cummer]

Make multiple guys cum :tongue:

[julyguybill]

for it is giving someone the pleasure makes me so hot

[bobby63114]

I prefer to get them off and then if they want to get me off that's ok but I must get them off.

[ba10016]

I prefer to suck my man to completion. I don't need reciprocation.

[Electricblue]

I don't get to cum until he or she is satisfied or simultaneously cumming!

[BisexualPisces3192]

I Prefer Them To Cum First.

[bw299]

Giving.

[csreef]

When I am making love with a woman, there is so much sensuality, so I enjoy seeing them cum. That makes my Orgasm all the better.

With men, it is a whole different story. They better get down on their knees, and pleasure me, otherwise there will be consequences.

[thirstyfellow]

Absolutely - satisfy my partner first. For me it's all about that. Ironically, it's difficult for me not to cum in the process and sometimes that can get distracting.

[EBGary]

For me it's always been better to give than receive. Since I'm a cock and suckoholic that makes since. My pleasure peeks when their orgasm peeks.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I'm with the majority on this one. Whether my partner is male or female, the goal is to give orgasm-inducing pleasure! I know I'm going to cum -- that's easy! The challenge is to assure that the other person does, too, preferably before I do. :)

[borntosuckcock]

Male or female, I like to make them cumfirst, it's what really gets me excited.

[Joboo]

I always like to make either the girl or guy come first. With women it heightens my climax, with the few guys I've been with if I came first I would seem to lose some interest.
My experience with another guy began with just jerking each other at a young age, at that time I was only concerned with my orgasm. Once we started giving each other oral at 18 I was way more excited about making him come first. I wasn't really interested in his cock until we got together a few years later at 18. His dick had grown so much bigger than mine and for some reason that was a huge turn on. I never even wanted to suck him until then. After that I couldn't get enough of his fat cock. If I was to come first at that point I didn't lose interest. I loved hearing him begin to moan and feel him start to raise his hips. At the point just before he would come feeling him grow that last little bit in my mouth would put me close to coming myself. He didn't mind since as soon as he took mine in I would come almost immediately.

[Meliss]

I like to touch, massage, rub and gradually get more and more excited.. receive oral from partner and then what ever is acceptable till I cum.. I sort of make myself cum rather than have someone else do it to me.. Nice if they cum, but some people just don't cum unless really special situations. Can't see worrying about it as long as the process is enjoyable to both and both would repeat it if given a chance.

[Shefford]

When I'm having sex with my wife she always cums first . I'll start pleasuring her with my hands and mouth and when she is ready it's alway her favorite vibrator. I try to get her off at least 3 times before I fuck her. With I'm sucking a cock I always need them to cum. Besides once I cum the fun stops.

[BiGuyInHouston]

If it is a first meeting. I prefer to have him make me cum first. After that I like to please first in any way he likes. Anything from waiting until after a few glasses of wine to hitting my knees as soon as he comes over.

[eager4cum]

giving is best (if not together) because I can always use that memory to masturbate with later.

[MtnMan]

I love pleasuring my partner and take great joy in their happiness. I like my own orgasms, too, of course, but the lingering feeling of happy is when I know they are going away from the episode with a smile.

[Asspussy302]

Definitely make someone else cum. Making others cum turns me on. Swallowing a mans cum turns me on too.

[hung4you]

My goal is to always make sure he cums before me. Many times before work he will come over for a morning blow and go dump his load down my throating and go to work satisfied.

[monaohio]

as long as we cum together is all that matters

[delpark]

Make someone cum. Man milk is my preference. I had the pleasure of being with a woman squirter years ago and it is a treasured experience. Today I prefer sucking a man's cock and having him shoot his load in my mouth.

[Kylookin4fun]

I love to make my lover cum to listen to them moan tease them then take them over the edge

[softheart]

I love it when a guy cums in my mouth. It gives me a total feeling of accomplishment, and I just want to hug and kiss him until the downer passes and he's all better again!

[thickneasy]

I like to make them cum

[coolbreeze69]

I have to go with the majority. Giving is much better than receiving! When he thrusts my face deeper and he starts to precum.....i get more into it! He grabs my bald head and slam fucks my mouth! Wow what a rush! It gives me chills right now! But it's been 6 months since I have pleasured a guy! I also love eating my fiancee out ....she tells me that she has never had a man spend hours on her pussy or even more than a few minutes....she is a squirter, so even more pleasure when she screams and squirts simultaneously!

[man4girlgirl4man]

Making a woman come gives me a feeling of power. Making a man come turns me into his slut. I love them both equally. But having my partner make me come isn't so bad either...

[Luvthewater]

Only had a couple experiences with men but I definitely prefer making them cum!!!

[snowcrazee]

It depends. I would rather make a guy cum than have him make me cum. But with a woman or shemale, i think there is mutual satisfaction in both making her cum and her making me cum.