I don't understand

[jimmyhopkins09]

ok people, for this thread i'm going to type a summary of my thoughts and feeling, and then hope you might be able to make it clearer or just tell me what you think

I'm 21 years old, and for many years now i have been almost certain im bisexual but just lately iv'e been starting to wonder. Becuase:

I get aroused and turned on when watching straight, gay and bisexual porn, but not lesbian.
but
i find myself thinking about sex with another guy alot more than sex with girls, despite both thoughts being arousing for me
however
I do not think that guys are fit, their bodies do not interest me that way, and i do like women, like megan fox, i thnk she's fit, with guys i'm indifferent
but
though i think they are fit, i feel nothing, for guys or girls, no attraction, no arousal, no desire for their body as such, as though it's more like i just know they're fit, i know some guys can look at a picture of a woman only topless and get a hardon.:male:

so to recap:
I react to all but lesbian porn
but i think about gay sex more despite wanting both
but i don't care if a guy is considered fit, only girls
but i have no attractive, or arousing feelings for anyone

what is the deal, what do you think? thnx:)

[bigbadmax]

I think sexuality is a very personal thing that only the individual concerned truly knows the answer to.

[bizel]

hi jimmy, i think you're young and exploring. i remember back in the 'old days when i was young' (lol), and i wanted everything yesterday. i wanted to have all the answers, but all i found were more questions. it's wasn't til i hit my 30's that i started to find answers, and now i've hit my 40's, i don't care what the answers or questions are cos i am content with myself and if others don't like me, that's their issue cos i'm not taking it personally.

this is easy to say, maybe not so easy to do, but go with the flow. you may find your tastes change over and over again until you meet someone who you really care about - of either sex, or shape. some of the posts i read here, people are just happy if they get lucky. play it safe, wear condoms, slap a smile on your face and just enjoy that you have double the options. hug, b