Fantasy & Desire

[tsmvb45]

I have read that Bi-Sexual People have a much higher desire for sex than str8 people & also have more fantansys than str8 people. I know I do. Your turn Bi-People.

[Gearbox]

I doubt it's true about the sex drive, but would make sense that we have more to fantasise about.lol

I know lots of straight and gay males who make me look like a frigid old eunuch by comparison. I also know of a few straight females that could slap for Britain.lol
I like a day off now and again, and when I don't, I get a compulsory day off anyway.:bigrin:

[parageneric]

I am not sure Iam strait but I have a lot of fantasies, the wife is bi,but also shy but i believe i have more ideas and fantasies than her LOL

[wetnude]

For me my sex drive is hi and men are more available for me to meet my ends.its all good.

[elian]

it depends on your environment, experience and innate desire. I'm not at all sure that bisexual people have cornered the market - humans in general are very imaginative, creative and the human mind can be very perverse. I think a bisexual person doesn't automatically have more desire than a straight person - the difference is just in who they love.

I've had various fantasies growing up - in the 80's a lot of music videos had big hair and flowing gauze so I thought it would be great to be stretched out across the bed of one of those sets.. When I was a young teenager in high school and full of hormones I often thought of many locker room fantasies involving more than one boy. One or two of them must've picked up on it because I got more than one kiss from them in public. Since I was just "confused" about how I felt at that time and it was a very rural conservative school in the 80's/90's my reaction was more confusion and surprise - I think I loved the attention more than any thought of sex, after all most teens just want to fit in. There was a boy who would ALWAYS get a shower even though we seldom really had time after gym and he would ALWAYS do it in plain view of one whole aisle of lockers..I always thought to myself that he looked "beautiful". I thought it was very erotic but I don't think I would've ever done anything with him..it was not the sort of environment conducive to that sort of thing.

Come to think of it I thought the eroticism of vampires and werewolves was cool long before "twilight" ever became popular. I was introduced to sex at a very young age and enjoyed masturbating but it was mostly for stress relief. The fantasies I had were more about "being with" someone in an erotic way more than the actual sex act itself.

To this day I get a lot of pleasure from watching people (and helping people) orgasm, there's just something about watching all of that tension build and then the release - you are seeing someone at their most vulnerable point..very erotic. Being bi, well at first it was a little confusing to want to see mostly guys do that, and then all of the sudden see a woman and be just as excited. As one of my good friends says he's never really heard straight people bitch about "too much dick" in a porno - after you reach a certain point of excitement it's ALL erotic.

It's fun to imagine what might be but it is also important to remember that sex is only one part of a whole person, we aren't animals with insatiable appetites, we are human beings who treat each other with compassion, love and respect. Unfortunately sex can be abused just as much as anything else.

[mikey3000]

I have read that Bi-Sexual People have a much higher desire for sex than str8 people & also have more fantansys than str8 people. I know I do. Your turn Bi-People.
I wish that was true :(.

[bityme]

I have read that Bi-Sexual People have a much higher desire for sex than str8 people & also have more fantansys than str8 people. I know I do. Your turn Bi-People.

I view sexual desire and flowing from a combination of hormonal influences and accessibility of another person or persons the individual finds exciting. Of course, the presence of love in a relationship most often means the existence of desire also.

I think that having fantasies is not dependent on orientation. I think it is more dependent on prior experiences and/or exposure to sexual situations in real life, film, media, etc. I could easily see the guy who stops off at the nude bar on the way home every night might have more fantasies than anyone else.

However, is does seem logical when it comes to more complicated fantasies involving more people, that a bisexual person might be prone to develop some fantasies which might be considered extreme. From a personal point of view, I experience fantasies that involve interaction with both genders as well as transgendered individuals. As I have fulfilled some, the newer ones become more complex. My own sexual bucket list currently has 75 entries and continues to grow.

Individuals who maintain that they are totally heterosexual or totally gay would, no doubt, be less likely to admit to fantasies involving same sex conduct. I am sure, however, that the reluctance to admit to them does not establish that they do not have such fantasies.

More important than the number or complexity of the fantasies is the fulfillment one experiences as the fantasy is lived out. A kiss at a special location under a starlight sky can easily be more fulfilling than a scenario involving multiple people at an orgy.

And then there are always those that you know will never be fulfilled, nor would you really want to. For example, one might have a fantasy of having sex in front of the podium during a Presidential news conference. I doubt that anyone with ever actually experience it.

Pappy