how do we get more women and couples on this site?

[bicplupstateny]

It's nice that there is a site like this, devoted to all things bisexual. The only problem is that at any given time most of the users on-line here are bi guys. There's nothing really wrong with that, except as a bi lady I wish there were more bi ladies her for me to talk to.

It would also be nice to talk to other both bi couples.

[DiamondDog]

Try different sites.

There are sites that aren't only for bisexuals where you can meet other bisexual men, male/female couples where both are bisexual, male/male couples where both are bisexual, bisexual women, and the whole range of LGBTH people.

[Jobelorocks]

The same problem exists on pretty much every swing sites. Tons of single males, some couples, and close to no single females.

[welickit]

It is a universal problem. Not just this site. The only alternative is a site or group that requires a video confirmation with both at the same time. Guys tend to be like flies on shit and worth about the same on a sexually oriented site. Just plain fact. Check any site and you will find the same complai

[bicplupstateny]

We're on swinging sites too, for straight and bi people. The problem with those sites is that there are not a lot of both bi couples. And some many that are both bi, list the hubby as straight.

Are we THAT rare?

[Realist]

BICPL, I'm not sure how rare it is, but I'm half of a bi couple, too. I'm certain because of the particulars, we are an uncommon pair.....I'm much older than my partner.

She would love to have a female lover; it's been about 10 years since her last FF relationship ended and she often craves a woman's touch. The problem is, she insists that I be involved. Many ladies her age, are not interested in being with an older man; I understand that and don't mind leaving them alone. I understand that some people don't want to do 3-somes, nor do they want anyone watching them.

I've begged her to meet someone and told her I am OK with her exploring alone. That surely cuts her chances of meeting someone, but she won't settle for any other way. She, on the other hand, is OK if I had a lover without her being present.

I'm happy with her, so I'm open to whatever.

[XxxpandedMind13]

Hi.
New cpl here. Maybe we should spread the word?? :confused:

[daddio3311]

Bi couple here too, would love more females and couples. We're really looking for a nice female or couple to hook-up with or have an online relationship with,.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Anymore that seems like thats all there is from my area...couples looking for a single male for that couple to play with. And I was told this morning that single Bi women werent really "Actual" bisexuals..Just closet Dykes looking to steal men's women. LOL
I'm still chuckling over that one....
Cat, wiping tears out of her eyes from laughter.

[Annika L]

Y'know, I keep seeing this thread, and I keep wondering...is it really that there are so few of us here? Or could it be that those of us who are here don't have what you're looking for?

I'm sure a lot of straight guys are out there saying "I wish there were more women around (not bi, just women)". They don't mean that the fact that more than half the population is female isn't enough for them..they mean that they wish there were more women around who'd be willing to have sex with *them*.

There could be 10 times as many bi women on this site as are currently here, and it still wouldn't be enough for some...because women on balance simply aren't as promiscuous as men (or at the very least aren't as promiscuous as men would like us to be).

And on the flip side, I tend to think of myself as a pretty present posting member in these forums...if someone is here looking for bi women just to *talk* to, and can't find anyone...y'know, I don't actually receive so many requests for conversation that I'm ignoring them. Clearly there are bi women here that you aren't approaching for conversation. If talking is *truly* all you want, maybe you could get more out of those of us who are here.

Just some thoughts.

[Long Duck Dong]

and that is why I like you so much, annika... you speak a simple and plain truth....

[hecameout]

Same here, always willing to chat. Don't get contacted...

[_Joe_]

"A woman's work is never done", which explains why they are not in abundant numbers on a variety of sites. I'd say men, step up, help them out with chores and tell them, "I'm doing this so you can get online more"

Find them in them in the streets, and carry their stuff.
Offer to drive them home and risk that speeding ticket.
Catch them in the store and offer to restaple the carpets that are coming a bit raggedy around the edges. That is not to be meant sexual. I mean the carpets on the floors.
Buy a floor waxer and spend all weekend getting it to shine again.
Get on your horse, ride out to the fields, and bring the cows home for them.
Sit down and do their taxes.

and BAM, their work isn't done, but a little work load is relieved. More Time for Online.

[welickit]

Joe we have a problem!! We found a gal in the street and tried to carry her stuff. She didn't want her stuff touched..........maybe because she wasn't wearing undies???

We offered a gal on the street a ride home and she just said she gets $25.

We offered to staple the carpet and got slapped for calling it ragged.

The floor waxer we had at home but now her carpet is loaded with wax and it doesn't shine?? Should we put more wax on the carpet or just keep polishing?

We don't have a horse, fields or cows so we got a goat and a rooster. Now the neighbors are pissed off.

We did find a gal that needed her 1988 taxes done and she loved our help so much the three of us had sex all night. You sure called that one right. Bi the way....we put your name on the tax return as the preparer.

[BiBedBud]

^^^ :wacko: LOL!

[_Joe_]

We did find a gal that needed her 1988 taxes done and she loved our help so much the three of us had sex all night. You sure called that one right. Bi the way....we put your name on the tax return as the preparer.

This stood out by far, because I know Statue of Limitations have passed.

[Annika L]

I tend to think of myself as a pretty present posting member in these forums...and yet nobody has ever done my taxes for me. What gives?? :tongue:

[welickit]

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