Bi-flexuality..lol

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol I just had a buffoon tell me that I wasnt a proper Bisexual because I dont pounce on every female I see, or know. (Rolling eyes inserted right here) According to him, I dont belong here because, "I dont post about the women I play with, nor do I post pictures of myself with them. I dont have a prob in posting pics of Men that I am with..why should I not show myself devouring a woman...?"

I dont post pics of the ladies iIplay with Because they are ladies, and I dont post without their permission...it doesnt make me a Bad Bisexual, it just means that women dont always feel the Need to post stories of their play partners, or conquests even. We dont feel the need to share all of that for some men's Fap pleasure or fuel some vicarious thrill. I dont feel the need to post scummy pics to get my point across, and dont need to voice my opinion on eating pussy, or fucking some chick with my big strapon.
So..if this makes me a bad Bisexual...oh well...lol :tongue:
Cat..as I am..:}

[NorthShore]

I don't see anything wrong with that. Why would someone have a problem with that?

[chicagom]

You had me at "big strapon" lol

[tenni]

Cat
I thought that you enjoyed being a bad girl…lol ;) ?

The longer that I am on this site, the more that I come to believe that bisexuality is a very broad umbrella. I can not say that I agree with the idea that bisexuality is pansexuality etc. but it is broad. There are some common traits and many of us have experienced similar issues/ …but with differing intensities over time. We change over our lifetime. Our attractions change. I think that you need to check with yourself every once in a while if your fluidity starts to stay in one area but the longer you are bisexual and aware the more that you have to compare your own life with. I've been in love with both women (lots) and men. I couldn't get more bisexual. I know that you have told stories about loving both women and men as well. Fewer stories about women but I vaguely recall a sweet recollection that you posted about being a innocent young girl..lol with another girl /woman.

The problem lately seems to be that unless it is about the sexual kinky and near depraved some think that is what bisexuality is all about. We've lost the stories about the emotional aspects of bisexuality being shared. A lot of the thread topics seem more gay cockcentric than bisexual. There are two attractions gender wise both physical and /or emotional. Posting images of cocks and pussies is not being bisexual as much as exhibitionist pornographer. We should not be slurred into not sharing our emotional aspects of bisexuality…loves lost…in love with two people of differing genders, coming to terms with our dual attraction and all that confusion that it entails….etc.

[DuckiesDarling]

tsk tsk my favorite pussy, you need to keep using that ignore :) Hugs, Cat.

[Long Duck Dong]

lol I remember my sister being told that she was not really bisexual because she would not sleep with other peoples gfs or get into threesomes with them lol..... skye was not adverse to 3somes, she just was not interested in being peoples play toy or putting on a exhibition

it was a few years after her death that I dealt with her personal effects and found a dvd that was some of the most erotic, passionate and sexually intense privately made vids I have ever seen along side some personal messages for me..... and I was a bit amused at the fact that my sister who had a profound dislike of the * paparazzi * in the bedroom, had made a personal dvd.......something that had been rumored about but nobody knew if it was true...lol

skye left lil doubt in peoples minds that she truly loved and loved males and females..... just watching her kiss her lovers in public, left no doubt of that..... her * kiss like the world is not there and you will kiss like the world doesn't matter * attitude was the same as her sexuality... * I love whom I love and I am happy and those that question my love, need to question if they have ever truly loved at all * and my fav * my sexuality is not really that important to me, the people I love are..... if I really wanted to validate my sexuality to others I would fuck on street corners in broad daylight.... the ones that care and that matter, are the ones that I make love with in the bedroom *

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Tenni-Dumpling..we've reeally Got to stop agreeing like this so much. Hell is gunna freeze up completely, and people are gunna start ta talk. Snicker.

Bisexuality doesnt necessarily equate out to mean Love. And alto I love women, I dont hop into bed with All women. Same as I dont hop into bed with every man that I know. Doesnt make me a bad Bisexual...just makes me a picky bitch! lol. I am Very picky about the ladies I interact with, and that isnt necessarily a bad thing. I have more respect for women that that..:}

Its not like I'd pounce on DD's bones and shag her silly, or attack Vitt with a passion, and curl her cute lil toes. (Fran I might tho.}:impleased (If Shy was still here, I'd pounce on her in a heartbeat!) Snickers.

Most guys just cannot See this...they dont understand that the dynamics are different with women. For some of us, its not Just "Fucking"....there's more of a mental level to making love. To them, its only the excitement element of hearing about women being together. (Rolling eyes inserted here)
And yes DD, I did use the Click option on him..lol
Have a safe and Happy New Years Eve, Darlings..:}
Yer Cat.

[Long Duck Dong]

if you ever do shag DD, I want pics or it never happened lol..... that or I will settle for seriously erotic rumours about what happens in the cat house lol.....

and cat.... you have a fucking good... and good fucking, new years ....

[Bisexual Explorer]

First, what's a bad bisexual?
Second, what does having standards in picking our partners have to do with our sexuality? Is a guy who sucks every cock he can at every glory hole within a 100 mile radius any more or less gay or bi than a guy who wants to have a real relationship to the man attached to the cock?
Third, what do we have to do to see pics (or better yet a video) of Cat and DD if and when?

And TF, give it a rest, relax, have some egg nog with a good shot of bourbon for New Years.

Happy New Year,
Bisexual Explorer

[newlynymphos]

I am an exhibitionist, and my wife knows this and loves that about me :) She knows I love her, and I don't fuck everyone (the thrill is in the showing off!). We do plenty of swapping, and only "bareback" with our regular partners (much like poly group would). Is there still risk? Of course there is! Ultimately what we would love is a FWB couple we could share our swinging and vanilla times with. Just hasn't happened yet.

When I do go to a bathhouse, it is strictly condoms, with my "boyfriend" there keeping it that way! Would you call me a slut? Maybe :) Nothing, to me, is more thrilling than public sex, and I wouldn't even own clothing if I could help it!

[void()]

lol I just had a buffoon tell me that I wasnt a proper Bisexual because I dont pounce on every female I see, or know. (Rolling eyes inserted right here) According to him, I dont belong here because, "I dont post about the women I play with, nor do I post pictures of myself with them. I dont have a prob in posting pics of Men that I am with..why should I not show myself devouring a woman...?"

I dont post pics of the ladies iIplay with Because they are ladies, and I dont post without their permission...it doesnt make me a Bad Bisexual, it just means that women dont always feel the Need to post stories of their play partners, or conquests even. We dont feel the need to share all of that for some men's Fap pleasure or fuel some vicarious thrill. I dont feel the need to post scummy pics to get my point across, and dont need to voice my opinion on eating pussy, or fucking some chick with my big strapon.
So..if this makes me a bad Bisexual...oh well...lol :tongue:
Cat..as I am..:}

I can see both sides of the "argument" as valid and equal. Neither side is correct
or in error. I too do not post much in the way of "tales". Figure it's only of concern
of the lovers in question.

But this doesn't say that those whom do post "tales" are wrong, or bad either. It
is back to being a matter of preference, or opinion, personal choice and responsibility.
Why not let be what will be? Agree to disagree, let the site remain open for both "sides"
of the argument.

No point to ruin it for those whom see validity and equality of both "sides". And no, I
do not gain any "entertainment" from such "arguments". I just see both points as equal,
see no need to restrict either view. If I want to look at something I do. If not, I don't.
Some consider that being a mature, reasonable and common sense using adult. And I
think we all agree the site is at the least adult themed.

So guess the short point is this.

"All of you grow up, use common sense. Accept a bit of personal responsibility."

Sorry to yell.

[matutum]

if you are playing with others and they are playing with others also yes their is a risk,

[tenni]

Have you wondered why a person doesn't post about being in love with both men and women and just constantly going on posting group sex and pig sex images?

Although being bisexual doesn't mean that you will have emotional attachment to both genders, not having any emotional attachment to anyone regardless of gender …ever …..seems unfortunate. Being just a fuck machine..well it is sad to not emotionally attach to other humans. Perhaps people who constantly post about excessive sex without any emotion may really, really be hurting inside or?

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

LOL. My self-esteem and sex life is just fine. I just think its funny that some people have the myth-conceiption that All bisexual women have to be blatant about it. And thanks for you little 2 cents. CLICK.
Cat

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Sorry Chica...didnt mean ta get ya excited, Sweetie. Breathe, breathe....OOOOommmmmm...lol
Muahs
Cat

[i_shoot_blanks]

I LOVE bad girls, Miss Kitty

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

I Know you do, Darlin. :love87:
Muahs
Cat

[amorous945]

I have to laugh when anyone has a certain set of rules, procedures or protocol that must be met in order to either quality or disqualify a person from being this, that or the other. Sadly, there are few places that one can go to find a substantive discussion about the variations of human sexuality. In my opinion, many people are just looking or some kind of "porn fix" or titillation to feed their addictions and obsessions. Ignorance is hard to fix.

[Gearbox]

I have to laugh
No you don't! You prob just do it when it takes your fancy. You're more laugh-curious than us proper laughers who do it 24/7 IMO. When we laugh it's coz it's in our DNA, and we can't help ourselves laughing at all kinds of things. Not just at some things coz it's cool, like those lipstick-lesbians.:bigrin:

[void()]

Ignorance is hard to fix.

No, ignorance is easy to fix. Step one admit you're not knowledgeable regarding a subject.
Step two, take some time and study upon the subject, maybe get first hand experience.

Stupidity, now there is what lacks a fix or cure save for a rather abrupt one.

[NakedInSeattle]

Cat, you iz what you iz...and we love you the way you iz!

[semibi]

To the original poster… sounds healthy to me!

[semibi]

Gearbox: Are you disparaging lipstick lesbians? ;)

Ok, I know you're not. Why should you? Surely, most of us on the site don't have a problem with lipstick lesbians.

[look4one]

I like Flexiblesexuality I find now that even bisexual is not describing myself as a whole anymore. Just like any person, I am not attracted to every male or female that I see.

Ever since I accepted the fact that I can be emotionally and sexually attracted to both male and female, I am facing with the fact now that there are more than just male and female. There are genders that cannot be plainly grouped as male or female. I am finding myself attracted to some of these great person, who may look like a female, but have a male hardware. Or from outside looks like a male, but is a female inside.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol Thank you Naked and Semi. This be me..the end product, and if people cannot handle me for me, As me, then they can keep on walkin'. (Or, depending on the situation or mood, an Airborne Fornication..lol) :}
Muahs to all who know me, and maybe a naughty nibble to those who Dont know me yet..snicker
Yer Cat

[Coastocoast]

Cat we are what we are. I am not into posting any photos of my intimate moments regardless of gender and I am very quiet in my real world abou
t my sexuality. I have been told that not being out, being unwilling to get together with people behind their partners backs and my personal desires are being less than a good bisexual. I would certainly not expect everyone to look at things the way I do, I have my reasons others have theirs. We each are what we are and should not try to be people we are not or others expect us to be. Be yourself and if it does not hurt anyone in the process to hell with those that complain.

[Bisexual Explorer]

[QUOTE=void();262577]No, ignorance is easy to fix.

Must disagree re:ignorance. I've been working on my ignorance - sexual and otherwise - for a very long time and still have a long ways to go. Sometimes it seems as if I'm getting more rather than less ignorant.

Totally agree re: stupidity if by stupidity you mean not knowing, not caring, or not even open to the possibility that you are ignorant.

Bisexual Explorer

[void()]

[QUOTE=void();262577]No, ignorance is easy to fix.

Must disagree re:ignorance. I've been working on my ignorance - sexual and otherwise - for a very long time and still have a long ways to go. Sometimes it seems as if I'm getting more rather than less ignorant.

Totally agree re: stupidity if by stupidity you mean not knowing, not caring, or not even open to the possibility that you are ignorant.

Bisexual Explorer

In the same boat regarding ignorance, still believe it's fixable, without hope there's no point. And yes, that's what I meant regarding stupidity.