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RustyPete
Jul 12, 2014, 4:35 PM
It seems like more than a lot (and yeah maybe I’m watching too much porn) of guys, anyone with cock and balls, after doing everything else sexually, then like to finish up their sex with someone(s), then finally ejaculate by jerking themselves off and creaming out and down on some part of the someone(s) else’s body instead of…cumming wherever no one can see. It seems rare that a sex partner finishes the job.

I have to confess: I do it. But still wonder why this seems the most popular method of male ejaculation after a long sex session?

Hypersexual11
Jul 12, 2014, 8:57 PM
I think it's just a porn favorite because it's so difficult to come vaginally with people and lights and all he distractions. I notice that most scenes where a guy pulls out to facial a gal are cut scenes, meaning he had to jerk and get fluffed before finally coming.
I assume many of us do this now and then. When my wife senses my approaching orgasm, her mouth gapes wide open as an invitation to come there if I feel like it. Sometimes I do, mostly I don't.
If you like porn where the come goes in the body, there is plenty. Search any good porn site for 'internal' and I'm sure you will find what you are looking for.

notsostr8
Jul 13, 2014, 2:16 AM
From Salon.com: http://www.salon.com/2012/02/21/explaining_the_money_shot/

"The proof is in the pudding." Or rather, the proof that the sex you've been witnessing actually was 'real' is that it ended in an orgasm, that you the viewer actually can see. That's why it's used in porn. I personally dislike porn in which the dude pulls out & ejaculates onto a no-longer-at-all-interested partner. I've watched scenes in which the receiver actually looks away, or tries not to make further contact with the ejaculating cock. Far better for my viewing is a scene which lasts a good minute post ejaculating, when a happy bottom licks up the proceeds & cleans up the "mess" or shares it with his/her partner-in-slime.

In "Real Life" I've had partners who had such a visceral avoidance of semen once the act of orgasm ocurred. It seemed odd to me, but we've been raised in the reality of HIV & other diseases that can be spread through contact, & let's face it, not everyone knows their status, so perhaps this is a good thing. Use condoms or KNOW your partner is your best defense.

Ads on Craigslist that read "Anon pump & dump" or "door open, lights out, ass up" are invitations to disease or worse, as are glory-hole sex. Still, even knowing the risks, these acts have a degree of allure to them that is for many, undeniable.

Socurious34
Jul 13, 2014, 4:08 AM
Its just the taboo of fluid transfer. Its raunchier to release the load in a visible place. My orgasms are way better when I cum inside, but in the moment its just hot to blow it on a face, and for the receiver, the ultimate act of submission.

dm330
Jul 13, 2014, 10:55 AM
I like to end each of my sessions on a good note, so I will cum wherever the one I'm with tells me to do it, except for inside the ass of course. With guys I'd like to find just one or 2 regulars and if I really like them and get to know them enough I have no qualms about letting them cum in my mouth. I'm a pleaser, so I will blow my load wherever they want me to when the time cums. The same goes with women. I have to say though, that when it comes to me cumming inside someone, I would only do it in their mouth. I don't get into anal, and I don't want kids lol, so blowing it in pussy is out of the question. I did that a few times with an ex, loved it, no kids, so I've had my experience there. Good topic, btw to the OP.

monaohio
Jul 13, 2014, 11:37 AM
I love it when he leaves it in and blows his load I love how his hot love juices feel going in my as and fill it up all day or night long

newlynymphos
Jul 14, 2014, 12:10 PM
I rather enjoy when I get cumm all over me! The more the better!

RustyPete
Jul 14, 2014, 2:54 PM
I rather enjoy when I get cumm all over me! The more the better!
Me too…us too. I cum on some part of my wife, then we finish the fun rubbing it all over ourselves, then hug. We call it super sex glue - keeps us together longer. :)

Visexual
Jul 15, 2014, 5:42 AM
When we were still having sex, my wife enjoyed me ejaculating on her breasts at times. So, I would for her pleasure. But the best feeling during ejaculation is inside of a nice wet vagina. Second is inside of a warm mouth. And, for me receiving, I love to feel a cock ejaculating in my mouth and I swallow every drop.

Gearbox
Jul 19, 2014, 11:52 AM
I think it's just the 'money shot' in porn where you can see the cum. I cum much easier inside than being blown or wanked etc.
Am not a fan of others cum, but will get them to cum on my bod to save the sheets etc.:rolleyes:

tenni
Jul 19, 2014, 1:46 PM
I think it is connecting porn with orgasm. The reality of shooting outside of a vagina or ass is due to making the orgasm visible in the porn. It has nothing to do with enjoyment until the peeps watching porn unconsciously connect shooting outside of an orifice as sexy..lol ;)

RustyPete
Jul 19, 2014, 4:08 PM
I think it's just the 'money shot' in porn where you can see the cum...:rolleyes:
Can't disagree with you Gear, within the context of porn. But I would add another, practical, IRL reason: mothers. Birth rather stretches things a bit such that MF sex becomes a bit like dropping a hot dog into the Grand Canyon (or for you Brits: a banger into the tube). And sure there are other alternatives (anal or oral) but if the F of MF partnership isn't in to either, that leaves only a hand to provide the necessary grip to intensify the orgasm.

suckemall
Jul 19, 2014, 4:41 PM
My wife cares to have someone cum inside of her, be it her ass, vagina or mouth. She will lock her legs around me or the other guy when she feels us ready to orgasm and then squeeze her legs tight together as we pull out to drain the last drop of cum inside of her so not to get any on her or the sheets. I like to have the guy blow his load inside of my mouth when giving blow jobs as well as my wife does. Have not taken any anal as she has, but hoping to one day.