View Full Version : How do you meet your sex partners?
pole_smoker
Sep 25, 2014, 11:46 PM
How do you meet your sex partners?
This includes the way you usually do, and how you have in the past.
I have used other sites, been introduced via friends, and met them in bars.
Melody Dean
Sep 26, 2014, 8:56 AM
I think you're missing an option. Some people don't go out to meet people with the intention of having sex with them. Sometimes it's about meeting the people first, and if sex happens, then that's great, but not the goal.
GirlyBoi4U
Sep 26, 2014, 2:51 PM
Even though I voted here, the online option being my method of choice, as Melody just said...my intention, or motive, is not to meet simply for sex. I am actually wanting to meet someone to strike up a friendship...a relationship with. Yes, sex is part of the the goal or desire...but not the only goal in mind. That having been said, I have not had much luck as it seems that everyone just wants to get together for a blow and go. If that's what I wanted, I'd be lurking on CraigsList...or perhaps in an adult bookstore. Yuck.
Anyone here have suggestions as to where, online, to find other "like minded" folks? Thanks!
bikurinpa
Sep 26, 2014, 8:19 PM
Missing one option, none those worked for me, need a option for "meet by pure dumb luck that a conversation with a friend just happens to go there that we discover eachother" I had better luck that way then online, all online here in this area are game players and bull shippers!!
pole_smoker
Sep 26, 2014, 9:15 PM
When polls are made you can't have more options than eight of them.
Gearbox
Sep 26, 2014, 9:28 PM
When polls are made you can't have more options than eight of them.
The last two options are pretty useless. coz they obviously don't meet anybody for sex.:tongue:
It's a poll for slappers.lol
Cutiliae
Sep 26, 2014, 9:55 PM
I have to resort to Craigslist and it sucks. I am the submissive bottom type and that is all there is out there. I have been trying for about 8 years now to meet just one guy that likes to let me suck them off once in a while.
SargeRay.USMC
Sep 26, 2014, 10:05 PM
I have been hooking up for 40+ years. i have never met anyone using "online". I have had casual sex with many but always met somehow first & got on some level of agreement and then got serious. This is with Females or Males. I have often known a partner for months b4 sex.
Lisa (va)
Sep 26, 2014, 10:38 PM
It usually starts with a hello, but as Melody said, you meet a person, saying hello to someone doesn't often lead to sex with them. If by chance you happen to hit it off and it leads to something more, fine, if not, also fine, it just feels good to be nice to folks.
Lisa
hugs n kisses
jem_is_bi
Sep 26, 2014, 11:06 PM
Online has worked well for me, but less well this site.
mrcumsalot
Sep 27, 2014, 10:39 AM
I like to meet men in bars. I am a submissive who enjoys multi partners at once. The best place to meet what I am looking for is in these types of establishments.
NjbiGuy01
Sep 27, 2014, 10:53 AM
Almost "all of the above" for me. In the past it was friends (bi curious school mates), later it was a girlfriend and i looking in the Village Voice personals for partners to join us. I work on cruise ships as a professional musician and met lots of drunk hot people (swingers and people just letting loose where nobody knew them)....today it's places like this, Craigs, AFF, etc.....rarely go to bars or clubs, although it's tempting.....