View Full Version : Signs that a man is ready to cum
MorThan7
Jan 17, 2018, 6:29 PM
I have read where people share their experiences about sucking cock and they describe what happens right before the big payoff. I'm no expert, only sucked about 5 dicks, but I am always surprised when the guy cums. I miss the signs.
Today I sucked a guy and he was dead silent the whole time. I had to ask him how it felt. He said it was great. I alternated between sex simulation with my mouth and running my tongue up and down and around the head, like I always do. During the switch up he finally said he was about to shoot. I switched to the suck mode in time and he exploded in my mouth.
Most guys moan and then when it gets loud I get ready to take it. This guy managed to keep quiet though it.
I'm not doubting my skills, I'm just wondering what the non audible tell tale signs are that a guy is about to cum. I want to start tuning in so I'm not caught off guard so much.
Tight1-4u
Jan 17, 2018, 11:30 PM
I have read where people share their experiences about sucking cock and they describe what happens right before the big payoff. I'm no expert, only sucked about 5 dicks, but I am always surprised when the guy cums. I miss the signs.
Today I sucked a guy and he was dead silent the whole time. I had to ask him how it felt. He said it was great. I alternated between sex simulation with my mouth and running my tongue up and down and around the head, like I always do. During the switch up he finally said he was about to shoot. I switched to the suck mode in time and he exploded in my mouth.
Most guys moan and then when it gets loud I get ready to take it. This guy managed to keep quiet though it.
I'm not doubting my skills, I'm just wondering what the non audible tell tale signs are that a guy is about to cum. I want to start tuning in so I'm not caught off guard so much.
Well some one of the signs are he starts breathing deeper harder.. his hips kinda grind.. his balls will lift a bit.. his ball sack will tighten.. his cock will grow and get harder.. the head of his cock will grow sometimes a lot.. just before he explodes his cock will twitch a little.. breath even deeper faster.. either has head rolled back or looking at you very intently with his hands on the back of your head.. precum precum precum!!!
hung4you
Jan 18, 2018, 5:44 AM
I concur with tight 1-4you. Everything he described is correct. They almost always gets harder and their balls will start pulsating. Another good indication is when they grab the back of your head.
SilkyHoseLover
Jan 18, 2018, 7:35 AM
While preceding posts have listed some indications, there are others that aren't quite so obvious. I tend to be very quiet, in life, as well as during sex play. Even in ordinary situations, it's not obvious that I'm having a good time. I don't complain and frown all the time, I just don't often give off 'happy' vibes.
I have to basically 'force' myself to make some sounds when I'm being fellated, because, as a cock-sucker, I know that the person trying to please me needs to know that he or she is doing a good job -- that's a big part of their satisfaction!
When orgasm is imminent, I always sound an alert as a courtesy to the sucker. Some don't want cum in their mouths, some crave it! Either way, they all know and can prepare for it in the way that they enjoy it the best.
Odge1
Jan 18, 2018, 10:56 PM
I have had urges all my life but never acted on them. I turned 55 and my wife seems more interested in video games and online shopping than having sex. I started following my urges and found 3 guys to suck off. I love it and must be a natural because all 3 have said I've given them the best head of their lives. My problem is I can't tell when their going to cum. Just suddenly my mouth is full of cum which I swallow of course. I'm trying harder to enjoy it more. I want to feel their head swell. I want to feel the twitch. Maybe the moaning gets me distracted. One guys almost screams when he chums. He is so loud I sometimes think his neighbors will hear. He tells I'm cunning ah ah ah yeah!!! It really is quite exciting!
mtfromlv
Jan 19, 2018, 9:45 AM
I like to hold and play with my mans balls as I suck him off. And just before he cums, they pull up a little and I swear they get bigger and harder like they're just full of cum for me. He's un-cut so I don't know if that makes a difference, but I don't notice the head swell, but his cock does get harder than it is already. I can feel it start to twitch and kind of a pumping feeling just seconds before he shoots. I love feeling him in my mouth as he starts to cum. It's really hard to explain the feeling you get because you gave him such pleasure, but you get a reward in the end. I remember the first time I sucked him off, and didn't know what to expect, so I tryed to take him as far down my throat as I could when he came so it just shot down my throat. Now I love letting him cum more in my mouth as I suck him and can taste all that cum and I can feel his cock a lot better with my mouth. I'm hooked.....
BigAlNYC
Jan 19, 2018, 1:35 PM
The main way I can usually tell, beyond any moaning or the guy just saying "I'm about to cum", is that the guy's cock usually swells up and gets super hard just before he cums. If you have him way deep or even in your throat this becomes very obvious. Also, he will often begin not-so-subtly fucking his cock into your mouth a bit. The most recent guy I've been sucking also has the very hot habit of reaching down and gripping my hands tightly just before he pumps his cum into me.
NakedInSeattle
Jan 20, 2018, 6:47 PM
Why do you care? Silent or screaming, it's all the same to me. I get the load. I usually moan a bit when I'm getting the load to tell him I am enjoying it and thanks.
ohbimale
Jan 24, 2018, 4:33 AM
When a man is about to cum they all seem to have different warnings or signs. In my younger years as an escort I did not pay much attention and just did what I do best....suck cock and swallow cum. It was and still is a rewarding feeling that I can give sexual pleasure to another man. If you focus on that and start letting your self enjoy the feeling of a man's cock growing hard in your mouth as you caress his shaft with your tongue and lips and fondle his balls you will be able to tell with experience when he is about to cum. Keep sucking cock and enjoy.
NakedInSeattle
Jan 24, 2018, 9:39 PM
Well said and well sucked, ohbimale.
Sundazzled
Jan 25, 2018, 2:34 AM
There are lots of signs that indicate a guy is nearing orgasm. Unfortunately, the signs are easy to miss, particularly in the heat of the moment, and to complicate matters, not every guy displays the same signals in the same order. I learned to read the signs by, frankly, by missing the signs, and getting an unexpected taste of semen.
In my experience, the guy's breathing will often become deeper and more ragged as he approaches orgasm. He may also appear flushed, and his nipples will sometimes become hard, erect and exquisitely sensitive.
As things progress, he may also begin to ooze pre-seminal fluid, commonly called precum. Some guys begin oozing almost as soon as they begin receiving stimulation, others only just prior to ejaculation. Moreover, the amount of precum can vary widely from just a few drops to a steady stream. Most of the guys I've been with -- about eight in all -- have been light pre-cummers, but one guy produced such a flow I actually thought for a moment he'd already ejaculated.
As your partner approaches the point of no return, he will probably begin moaning loudly, and bucking his hips back and forth. You may notice that his scrotum has retracted, drawing his balls up into a tight little package against his body. The moment of inevitability -- the point at which he can no longer hold back his orgasm -- is almost at hand.
Suddenly, you may feel his erect cock become even more rigid. Likewise, you will probably feel his cockhead swell noticeably in your mouth. His orgasm has arrived, and as it washes over him, his cock will begin to twitch and throb spasmodically. When this happens, and you have about two seconds to either pull away, or prepare to accept a mouthful of warm, fresh cum.
csreef
Jan 25, 2018, 3:15 PM
For me, when I'm about to cum, first my feet shake, then my legs twitch and shake. . . :tongue:
softheart
Jan 26, 2018, 4:35 PM
I try to "edge" him for a bit. I can tell when he is almost there, so I back down just a bit by keeping away from the little pleasure buttons below the head. Also, when he is at that point, you can lick the glans - keeping away from the buttons, and prolong his orgasm until he reaches overload and goes psychotic on your ass!
If you practice this while masturbating, you'll get the technique.
It's great fun.