Question for Bottoms

[NerdyBiGuy]

So... I have a question for other guys/girls who either have bottomed, or are the regular bottom: do you enjoy it because you like making your partner happy, or because you like being submissive to a more ‘dominant’ partner? I am not a dominant person, both in bed and in normal interactions, I am very shy and reserved, and while I have only bottomed once, I feel that I would make for a very poor top. :oh:

[Tight1-4u]

this is a good question.. for me it is a lot of different thingsi am very alpha male in real life so being a sub bottom is a huge relieve to me to just give into my partner.. it don’t make me feel feminine or lady like I just really like giving control over and being his fuck toy.. it is very erotic to me.. and on the other hand I just love getting my pussy fucked.. I so enjoy it.. I love having nice cock inside of me.. the few guys that I let cum in me I love knowing that I another guy got them so horny and worked up that they planted their seed deep inside me.. it feels amazing knowing that they age me their dna to become part of me for the rest of my life..

[NerdyBiGuy]

this is a good question.. for me it is a lot of different thingsi am very alpha male in real life so being a sub bottom is a huge relieve to me to just give into my partner.. it don’t make me feel feminine or lady like I just really like giving control over and being his fuck toy.. it is very erotic to me.. and on the other hand I just love getting my pussy fucked.. I so enjoy it.. I love having nice cock inside of me.. the few guys that I let cum in me I love knowing that I another guy got them so horny and worked up that they planted their seed deep inside me.. it feels amazing knowing that they age me their dna to become part of me for the rest of my life..

That’s quite a picture you painted! But I’m confused, your profile is listed as male, but you mention having a “pussy”? I take it you mean your anus then? :bigrin: I don’t like viewing myself as a “fucktoy”, just someone who likes making others happy.

[Tight1-4u]

yes pussy I do mean my ass.. but it is used for much the same purpose to be fucked.. and fuck toy is just a term.. I do give pleasure and happiness with my pussy.. relief as well.. to sexually frustrated married men.. they come to me to get what they want and need.. I give it willingly and freely.. they get the sex and tension and I get fucked well..

[Jakesnake]

Wow, I love to bottom. I only bottom. I love women, and pussy, and a nice set of tits. But on the right day, show me a fat cock and all I want to do is please the man its attatched to. Its so sexy knowing that a man has a hard cock because I sucked it and made him hard, then the pleasure of him filling my ass full with his dick. Listening to him moan with pleasure as I suck his dick with my ass while he pumps in and out of me. But the ultimate is knowing that I have given him so much pleasure that he has an orgasm inside me. I stay half hard the rest of the day knowing his cum is inside me. Yes I love to bottom, and I love a man to make me his cum slut

[xdoorb]

I don't do it often, as most of the guys I've been with have been bottoms, but when I do it I like it because it makes him happy and it feels fantastic.

[KDaddy23]

When I've bottomed, it's not to make the other guy happy and I'm definitely not the submissive type... but I do like being fucked from time to time; I've slowed that down a lot here in my old age. Why not do it to make my partner happy? Because he's gonna be happy that he gets to fuck and I've never heard - or had it come back to me in any way - that a guy didn't like filling my ass with cum. I don't have the personality to be a submissive kind of guy; I learned early on in life that I don't respond well to guys who wanted to be dominant with me... and still don't.

[NerdyBiGuy]

yes pussy I do mean my ass.. but it is used for much the same purpose to be fucked.. and fuck toy is just a term.. I do give pleasure and happiness with my pussy.. relief as well.. to sexually frustrated married men.. they come to me to get what they want and need.. I give it willingly and freely.. they get the sex and tension and I get fucked well..

Being called a “fucktoy” is degrading.

[NjbiGuy01]

I like topping sometimes (when things get hot), but am primarily a bottom. When I fuck, it's more often with a woman. Even anally, I like a woman's smell and smoothness. I love my prostate being tickled by a nice long cock. I prefer length over thickness, which can sometimes hurt and makes me bleed on occasion. It comes down to the partner being slow, gentle, well lubed, covered and patient. I do like that it makes my partner happy, and especially when I'm on my hands and knees between two cocks, one in my mouth and the other in my ass. I guess I'm selfish, but I just think of how good it feels for me and also think about how much my partner is hopefully enjoying it too. It's about equal for me.

[eager4cum]

for me, I do not necessarily define bottom as being fucked in my ass (or pussy as Tight1 calls it) as I have no interests in anal of any kind. BUT, I do define being the bottom as sucking on his cock till he fills my mouth. The reason I enjoy being the bottom in this scenario is because I love the feeling of his hard cock and the feeling of my lips around it, the pulsing and finally I love the cum and playing with the cum.
So, do you all agree that this qualifies as being a bottom? Does not really matter if it qualifies as my reasons for doing it will be unaffected but I am interested in knowing. Hopefully, this answers the question of why I love doing it too.

[by~his~side]

BUT, I do define being the bottom as sucking on his cock till he fills my mouth.
So, do you all agree that this qualifies as being a bottom?.

My opinion...(just an opinion). That is not the image that comes to mind when I think of a bottom.
A bottom has a cock in his ass.
As long as your lover understands your definition of a bottom then it's all good, right?

Dee

[MAcpl69]

Although I have not bottomed with another guy my wife pegs me and I love the feeling of being fucked. As we have done this more and more I can say it's much more erotic as she is starting to enjoy doing it. Bottom line no pun intended I really like anal stimulation, the wife has also been experimenting with anal play and has said she likes it, to her it's alot like getting fucked in her pussy. Can't wait till she wants cock in both at the same time!

[Footstep40]

I never really stopped to think about it. I like to bottom because just feels amazing to me, and well.. the man I'm involved with is a top, so it just works out that way.

[monaohio]

i love being the bottom it makes me feel like a woman does after geeting cock and cum

[eager4cum]

My opinion...(just an opinion). That is not the image that comes to mind when I think of a bottom.
A bottom has a cock in his ass.
As long as your lover understands your definition of a bottom then it's all good, right?

Dee

your right on, it is not the image I think of either which is why I asked the question because I wanted to know what others think about it. thanks for responding.

[csreef]

Its interesting that as I get older, I would like to try being a bottom. Also, I'm interested in being pegged by a woman, just to see what it would be like .;)

[fredward]

I've tried bottoming a few times, but I'm still working on it. For me, it's the interesting sensations I'm wanting to explore, not being submissive. I have trust issues about being submissive that I have a hard time getting over.

While I prefer to top, I'm not a dominant alpha either. I just like sex.

[LVTOGP]

I think most of the enjoyment of being a bottom is giving in and letting someone take charge of you, at 30 I’m starting to find people that understand instead of thinking every casual encounter is serious... and then again some aren’t enough ����*♂️

[LVTOGP]

My secret finally was able to fist me... have to say, intimate submission there. All I could think was how much of a slut my ass was for him able to stretch that far

[downforce]

I enjoy the role change. With my wife Im dominant, and she does whatever I ask. When Im with a guy I love to submit to him, to do whatever it takes to please him.

I would say its 50/50, though...I love the submissive aspect of it, but I also genuinely love the feeling of being fucked. That stretch and fullness cant be beat.

[softheart]

I do it because I like it and so does my partner. He tops me front to front with his arms holding my knees to my sides, and I hang on for dear life. I love the physicality of him pounding into me trying to get his nut while I'm doing everything I can to help. I love to squeeze my toes and my hole as tight as possible. After a minute or so I start oozing precum onto my stomach, and that and , it helps me to cum from his belly rubbing on my cock as he fucks me. There is something special about "our little secret" that I am carrying my partners cum in my ass everywhere we go that day.

[NerdyBiGuy]

I never really stopped to think about it. I like to bottom because just feels amazing to me, and well.. the man I'm involved with is a top, so it just works out that way.

does he enjoy topping you? :)

[Footstep40]

LOL.. Well yeah, he does!

[Cumking]

Hi there looking to chat

[Spininmywheels]

My opinion...(just an opinion). That is not the image that comes to mind when I think of a bottom.
A bottom has a cock in his ass.
As long as your lover understands your definition of a bottom then it's all good, right?

Dee

I agree that a bottom wants and accepts cock in his ass.
For me, I want that cock in my ass and in my mouth and to give into my tops desires.
So I guess I would define myself as a submissive bottom
Thank You

[by~his~side]

I agree that a bottom wants and accepts cock in his ass.
For me, I want that cock in my ass and in my mouth and to give into my tops desires.
So I guess I would define myself as a submissive bottom
Thank You


You have a clear understanding of what your top desires so
I would most definitely define you as a submissive bottom.
And a sexy bottom, as well.

You're welcome

[NerdyBiGuy]

LOL.. Well yeah, he does!

Lol! Good point...

[MorThan7]

I really like the sensation but it is also about being on the other end of a cock. I don't consider top or bottom as dominant or submissive. I like to time my muscle contractions with my ass as my top pushes in and again as he pulls back. When I tighten up the sensation gets more intense and it gives me some control over the experience. I also like the build up to him cumming inside me. What I also like is to flip and top him after we have a short break. I think being a bottom makes you a better top.

[playful808]

As a Bottom, I might be passive or aggressive. Might be about getting him off, or getting me off. Depends. It’s a dynamic.

[Asspussy302]

I bottom for many reasons, first, because it feels amazing, I have yet to experience a better orgasm. I don’t think you have to be submissive to bottom, that being said, when I bottom, I like to be dominated, I’m not offended by being called a fucktoy. I also do love to please my partner anyway I can, if fucking me pleases him/her then it’s all the better for me.

[playful808]

Question:
Are all the bottoms here also subs?

[hung4you]

At 57 years old I have been engaged in anal sex since collage, I have maintained the same sex partners for years now, so much so that it is common place for them to send me a text giving me a heads up so I can properly prep. My wife knows of my sexual adventures and we engage in lots of outside the marriage sexual fun. In my normal day to day life I am the ultimate alpha male, dominate personality and driven, in private I become a submissive bottom boy who likes to be dominated in bed. My buddy who is a regular gives me a great deal of satisfaction every time he makes a deposit in my ass or man pussy. But it’s not one sided , we switch it up and I give him a good ass pounding from time to time, but my ultimate favorite is when I have all 4 of my regulars buds take turns spilling their spunk in my man hole.

[csreef]

Question:
Are all the bottoms here also subs?

I would like to bottom to the right man, for the sexual experience of it. I am not submissive.

[williamg]

Although I have not bottomed with another guy my wife pegs me and I love the feeling of being fucked. As we have done this more and more I can say it's much more erotic as she is starting to enjoy doing it. Bottom line no pun intended I really like anal stimulation, the wife has also been experimenting with anal play and has said she likes it, to her it's alot like getting fucked in her pussy. Can't wait till she wants cock in both at the same time!

I'm in the same boat as you.Wife loves to fuck me with our strapons or hand held toys. I LOVE the feeling in my ass. It's like I'm being massaged from the inside out! When she hits my P-spot I can't help but moan. I think that drives her to fuck me more. Like your wife, mine has learned to like anal as well. She can cum from anal play too! My dream would to be fucked by a real cock while my wife sucks me. Or two guys!

[Radlatino]

This is the reason to do the real thing

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[DMercator]

I like topping sometimes (when things get hot), but am primarily a bottom. When I fuck, it's more often with a woman. Even anally, I like a woman's smell and smoothness. I love my prostate being tickled by a nice long cock. I prefer length over thickness, which can sometimes hurt and makes me bleed on occasion. It comes down to the partner being slow, gentle, well lubed, covered and patient. I do like that it makes my partner happy, and especially when I'm on my hands and knees between two cocks, one in my mouth and the other in my ass. I guess I'm selfish, but I just think of how good it feels for me and also think about how much my partner is hopefully enjoying it too. It's about equal for me.

While I've never had the pleasure of enjoying one cock in my mouth and another in my ass at the same time, the rest of your post fits me to a "T" I love feeling a hard cock in my ass first and foremost because it feels good. On the other hand, the few times I've topped, the pleasure was much about knowing I was making my partner feel good, than about feeling good myself.

[CTmale50]

I do it for both. There's no way I would subject myself to pain to please a guy..no thanks! If his cock in my ass feels good, then it's a win-win for both! But knowing I made my guy moan with great pleasure is such a mental turn-on!

[CTmale50]

the guy needs to take it slow if he's entering you...or you take control and sit on it..that way, you decide how much to take in...there will be a little pain at first.. every man knows this who ever took a cock in the ass! but it goes away and other feelings take place. The more you get fucked, the more pleasurable experience it is..

[NerdyBiGuy]

Question:
Are all the bottoms here also subs?

Im submissive only to the point of not being an aggressive dom. Like, I will gladly submit to a kind top, but I’m not going to go so far as “spank me daddy, I’ve been a bad boy!”. You know? I am not turned on by aggressive men/women.

[secretasianman]

I think I do like to be dominated, but it's not that I want to be submissive, but that I want to please, and be pleased. The harder the top pounds me, the harder I moan. If the guy pushes my head to deepthroat his cock, and slaps my face with my cock in his mouth, it just turns me on. At a certain point, I'll do just about anything he says.

[xdoorb]

I don't bottom very often due to all of my partners having been bottoms, but I do it sometimes, and I'm not submissive in the slightest.

[wifekinky4husband]

I love all this terminology that is getting thrown around. So clinical. For me it is simple: I enjoy anal sex because it feels incredible to be dual penetrated. Dp brings the longest and most massive orgasms without a doubt. From his experience, my husband swears it is the anal penetration that is creating it. I tend to agree wit him. I am multiorgasmic vaginally and with very intense orgasms but dp takes me over the moon. Also without a doubt, my husband never multiorgasmed until I introduced him to anal. I believe his orgasms can rival mine based on the way his body responds and feels to me. It is the closest experience to my own and we love that we can share this. We love vaginal sex but all the anal sex are shared moments that we both do. It is a different type of connection for us. As for the person we are doing it with (if it is another) is is pure, raw pleasure, we do it because it feels amazing. As for being submissive? Whaaaaa? Neither of us are, it's sex, fun feel good sex. And we agree that bareback is the best since cum filling anal sex is the bomb for many reasons! We love the added pressure and fullness as well as the fabulous visuals.

[hung4you]

I have been sharing my bi experiences with my wife for quite sometime now, I 1st experienced my 1st anal action in collage and have been an advocate ever since, early in our marriage 33 yrs ago she knew I was into man sex sex and lots of it. She too is into anal sex and I pleasure myself In her ass often as does my best buddy. Without remorse it is the most awesome sexual act I participate in. She and I have had more spunk dumped in our ass than we can count. Having a dependable buddy who services both of us is an awesome relationship, knowing that whether she or I are are taking care of his needs we both know and appreciate that he is clean and discreet. Being my neighbor it is also so convenient having a buddy so close and available almost daily whether it’s a quick blow and go before work or full on sex annaly . His cock is always a welcome addition too our bed, but it is not one sided, he too loves to take my dick deep into his ass. So at least for the wife and I we enjoy our encounters immensely and often. His super hairy body is a turn on for both of us, his hairy body thrusting his dick into us is an awesome sight and feeling and he being a heavy cummer makes it all the more hot.

[xdoorb]

I just want to applaud those last two posts. Your descriptions really make me wanna get fucked!!! :eek::eek:

[SuckNSwallow]

I just like to suck cock. If the guy wants to fuck my ass, I won't say no. If I've been with the guy enough times and trust him, I'll swallow his cum... or let him cum wherever he wants.

[stonebow]

Its interesting that as I get older, I would like to try being a bottom. Also, I'm interested in being pegged by a woman, just to see what it would be like .;)

Then you need to try both. I've never been pegged by a woman...I might enjoy it, but I'm pretty sure it would feel different from a mental perspective. I've put plenty of dildos in my ass but never enjoyed them as much as when a man fucked me.....it's the human connection after all that drives us to couple with one another regardless of whether the 'other' is opposite or the same sex. Hard to imagine that connection would feel quite as strong if it was through a strap-on.

[stonebow]

[QUOTE=MorThan7;328190 I think being a bottom makes you a better top.[/QUOTE]

AGREED!...every guy who prefers to top should bottom once in a while....for the empathy factor.

[stonebow]

So in answer to the original question...I bottom both because it feels good to have a dick in my ass AND because I love knowing I'm pleasing my guy. If being compassionate and caring and wanting your partner to enjoy your body is your definition of submissiveness, well...that's just another label...and not the most accurate one.

[hairy69]

Man, I wish I could live in your neighborhood! What a great situation you have!

[SilkyHoseLover]

I bottom both because it feels good to have a dick in my ass AND because I love knowing I'm pleasing my guy.
Bingo! :thumbu:

[PertyX]

For myself, I want to be the woman, and to be penetrated for pleasure is the ultimate expression of femininity...

[Basin_Bouy]

I am a Total Bottom, I like it because it makes me feel very slutty ... and I love how it feels

[lancer525]

For me, it's a lot more simple than anything yet posted. I have come in asses before. I have not had anyone come in my ass yet. Maybe after I experience it, I'll know whether or not I wish to repeat the experience.

[Birob67]

Just love the feeling of a nice cock in my love hole.
Knowing that I'm bringing pleasure to both of us turns me on.

[wifekinky4husband]

I just want to applaud those last two posts. Your descriptions really make me wanna get fucked!!! :eek::eek:

lol - thank you

A couple that takes it together side by side stays together - lol.

We have a stud now who can give my husband the best anal ever now and three ladies to help out so the strap on thing is pretty fun nowadays. My husband has not and will not do another guy anally, not ever going to happen so its a good thing all the ladies love to do guys. Kinda rough if they want anal reciprocated otherwise. But even though we will never do that, my man has gotten very good at sucking guys off and taking cum like a pro. I'm so proud of him. :) SOOOO HOOTTT! Still the BEST Kissing EVER!!!

[JeffT]

It appeals to my submissive side. I love the feeling of being taken hard when he cums and fills me up.

[sisboy]

I only bottom now and can honestly say that when the right guys approach you and you hit it off and they know how how to use their cocks their is no greater feeling/orgasm in the world.It is so hot when you know he is getting ready to cum deep in you and you just aly there exhausted when he is done with you.You may be spent but your mind is already racing to the next time.It is also hot when all he wants is a qucik bj in the car to make him happy.I love married women who do not know how to make their men happy.I do.

[Bi-guy rick]

I like being both top and bottom, and likewise like acting as both dom and sub. I don't have just one persona sexually. I like playing different roles based on my own moods as well as my partners. If I am with a sub I play the Dom role, and visa versa. However, my perfect match is versatile just like I am. I say I can be sub, but I am always aggressive. I am a feed me fuck me oral and bottom.