Cummer's Guilt

[zbi73]

When we're horny it often doesn't matter what fantasy we use, porn we watch or gender we have sex with until we cum, then it may be a different ball game. Who suffers from cummer's guilt when the same gender is involved?

[Long Duck Dong]

I have not had that, but I have have guilt over the years if I felt I did not satisfy my female partners, even tho none of them ever complained and said that instead I went the extra mile for them and often did not worry about cumming myself

[KDaddy23]

Once I learned why I'd feel guilty after busting a nut, I just stopped letting it bother me. It's just the way our bodies work and it feels like guilt because you've done something "wrong" when something as simple as masturbating is seen as perfectly normal. Ya might feel "guilty" to be watching porn and doing something and that "make sense" given how society looks at porn and even sex but does it make sense to feel guilty over something that millions of people do every moment of every day - and even right this very moment? Doesn't make sense to me but, then again, I know why that guilty feeling shows up and it's not really guilt over doing something I wasn't supposed to do or anything like that; I know there's nothing that can be done about it... but I can ignore it and not let it fuck with my head.

I spanked the monkey this morning while getting washed up... and it was glorious to stand in front of the mirror and watch myself getting myself off - and I came (almost fell on my ass because it felt that good)... and I felt "guilty" before I even stopped cumming... and I ignored it, smiled at my reflection in the mirror, and finished getting cleaned up like it was no big deal... because it isn't a big deal. But like I said, I know why - I know the science of it - so it doesn't bother me one bit. It's mind over matter and, like they say, if you don't mind, it doesn't matter.

[allmyassbelongtocock]

I don't usually cum when it's with the same gender. I will have anal orgasms, but I don't feel guilty about that. :)

[monaohio]

i love when a guy is doing me and we both cum at same time no guilt about it

[stonebow]

i love when a guy is doing me and we both cum at same time no guilt about it
That's like the Holy Grail of sex, isn't it? Not sure that's ever happened to me but it would be awesome to experience it...knowing my guy has nutted at the exact moment I've climaxed...then cuddling and recovering for round two....perfect!

[JSX1575]

I had guilt for years when it was men but not CD’s or Transsexuals. Within the last year I have finally gotten over it. It just feels so good. To me it feels so naughty, like your not supposed to do it but just feels so good.

[bithunder]

Never have

[Tag200]

Yes I have had guilt and doubt each of the few times I have played with a man. Married for one, and mostly heterosexual, so only like dick .. certainly get guilty and nervous when I cum and leave right away. Always regret I leave right away but seem to each time

[Bifun2009]

I would feel guilty and would tell myself that "I won't do this again". But, the urge would be too strong after, watching a few good Bi/gay videos that I would rent from the local video store. I met my first buddy in the old chatroom's on AOL. After meeting up with him about 6 or 7 times for sex. The guilt became less and less to the point that it didn't even faze me any longer.

[cbxer66]

WTF is cummer's guilt? Never heard of it. Ashamed to shoot a load? Really. I love cumming. When I can't anymore, I'll soon move on to pushin up daisies. Guilt? LMAO!!

[Tag200]

I can relate to what you are saying.. you feel guilt right after but the urge comes again and after a sore tukes the guilt starts to fade

[xdoorb]

It just feels so good. To me it feels so naughty, like your not supposed to do it but just feels so good.

That is the best part. :oh:

[delpark]

I was twenty-three and recently divorced when I made contact with a gay college student through an ad. He gave me his address and time to meet him. I went to his apartment and was comfortable with the situation. I was sucking his cock in front of a window that was facing the apartment building entrance and I remember hoping someone would approach and see me blowing him. Before anyone neared, we went back his bedroom. It was magical, I had sucked cock before but had never experienced the uninhibited gay exploration such as this. I remember rimming him, he had cleaned and powdered his asshole. It was nice. I sucked his cock, savored his pre-cum. He came in my mouth, my first experience tasting another guy's cum. I swallowed his load and licked his cock clean. It was a thrilling experience and I loved it. He was sucking me, it almost as good a feeling as me sucking his cock. I came in his mouth, he swallowed. And then I was hit with guilt. That basking in the beautiful experience of gay sex came crashing down on me. I made an apology, got dressed and left. I felt like I had done something wrong. That feeling of guilt faded not long after, rearing its ugly head with less intensity over the years until it stopped completely.

[Destro]

When we're horny it often doesn't matter what fantasy we use, porn we watch or gender we have sex with until we cum, then it may be a different ball game. Who suffers from cummer's guilt when the same gender is involved? I do, all the time. I am heteroflexible. Which means that am predominately hetero, but occasionally crave some M2M action. So, every time I cum after having same sex sex, I feel the dreaded 'cummer's guilt'.

[Tag200]

I still deal with this as my experiences are limited ... maybe I should do it more to get over it

[Tag200]

Sounds like me as soon as I cum I feel guilty and nervous and can't wait to leave.. so since I want to trying sucking more I always do it first because when I cut it’s over

[Destro]

Sounds like me as soon as I cum I feel guilty and nervous and can't wait to leave.. so since I want to trying sucking more I always do it first because when I cut it’s over That is literally me!! I try to be the last one to cum. If I cum first, it's over. I feel cummer's guilt hard.

[curiousandstraight]

While I haven't had my first experience yet, the same thing happens when I'm chatting online with someone or looking at bi/gay/trans porn. Once I cum, I wonder what the heck I was thinking. Then a few hours later or the next day when I'm horny again, I'm all into the thought of cock play.

Making sure the other person you're with cums first sounds like a great strategy. Has anyone with "cummer's guilt" found that, over time, employing that strategy of making sure the other person cums first makes the guilty feelings become less?

[Tag200]

Thanks for sharing ... I recall one time I met this guy and we were rubbing each other through our pants he dropped down and jerked me off .. as soon as I shot my load I got nervous and left. I totally regret that he had a nice cock ;it felt nice and pics were nice but never saw it in person.. I still think about it and the good news is the guy recently contacted me again.. if we meet I am dropping to me knees and sucking him

[zbi73]

While I haven't had my first experience yet, the same thing happens when I'm chatting online with someone or looking at bi/gay/trans porn. Once I cum, I wonder what the heck I was thinking. Then a few hours later or the next day when I'm horny again, I'm all into the thought of cock play.

This used to happen to me when masturbating to gay porn. It took me awhile to move passed the guilt from enjoying it hence the question. I knew I was bisexual but I also had to accept it too. Acceptance was the key to removing my guilt from my same sex desires as those desires simply became a normal part of my sexuality expression rather than something I was trying miserably to bury. This may change when I have my first experience too but by then hopefully I've adjusted well and it won't be a big deal.

[sysper]

This used to happen to me when masturbating to gay porn. It took me awhile to move passed the guilt from enjoying it hence the question. I knew I was bisexual but I also had to accept it too. Acceptance was the key to removing my guilt from my same sex desires as those desires simply became a normal part of my sexuality expression rather than something I was trying miserably to bury. This may change when I have my first experience too but by then hopefully I've adjusted well and it won't be a big deal.
i wish you an awesome guilt free first experance with the right guy! the right guy will make you feel positively about it. (wish the same for me too. hmm what are u doing tomarrow nite lol!)

[cbxer66]

i wish you an awesome guilt free first experance with the right guy! the right guy will make you feel positively about it. (wish the same for me too. hmm what are u doing tomarrow nite lol!)

It's a long trip to New Zealand! LMAO!!

[zbi73]

i wish you an awesome guilt free first experance with the right guy! the right guy will make you feel positively about it. (wish the same for me too. hmm what are u doing tomarrow nite lol!)

Hah, both our borders are now closed due to the virus :P For me, I believe it's a matter of when, not if. When, no idea, just happy being me at the moment.

[jem_is_bi]

No. I feel great after same gender sex!
Sex with a female can feel good but not great.

[Chester1954]

for many years the extent of my sexual contact was female prostitutes, Men through glory holes, and masturbation. I always felt extremely guilty after I had an orgasm for many years.

[xdoorb]

I had this kind of guilt in my first couple of encounters with guys, but it went away after that. Now it's just sex, and nothing to feel bad about.