Size, position and one more question.

[dowmass]

My questions for tops and bottoms


1) I?ve heard that it?s not the size that matters but how one uses it. As a bottom, have you found that a bigger cock feels better inside you?

2) Is there a position that you find is more enjoyable? I have found that doggie was the best. It gave me ? earth shattering? orgasms triggered from my prostrate.

3) How do you define ?Sub? or ?Fem?? Do you see more fun being with a sub or fem? In what way?

[KDaddy23]

For me, smaller cocks feel better but you take what you can get - and then you handle it; I don't mind doggy but being mounted while on my belly is comfortable - never did like being on my knees and my knees don't like it either. I... don't define sub or fem because I think they define themselves - but are subject to interpretation. My gay boyfriend was both submissive and quite feminine but I know these traits didn't make him more fun to be with - that would be his personality and I'd sometimes find his submissive femininity to be a bit bothersome and I learned some important things about guys like him. Still, I loved that he was so eager to please me and keep me pleased; amazing cocksucker and making love to him was some of the best I've ever experienced with anyone.

I have fun being with guys and no matter how they identify - sub, top, bottom, verse, fem, whatever. Who they are as a person has more importance to me than being a sub/fem/power bottom or whatever...

[dowmass]

For me, smaller cocks feel better but you take what you can get - and then you handle it; I don't mind doggy but being mounted while on my belly is comfortable - never did like being on my knees and my knees don't like it either. I... don't define sub or fem because I think they define themselves - but are subject to interpretation. My gay boyfriend was both submissive and quite feminine but I know these traits didn't make him more fun to be with - that would be his personality and I'd sometimes find his submissive femininity to be a bit bothersome and I learned some important things about guys like him. Still, I loved that he was so eager to please me and keep me pleased; amazing cocksucker and making love to him was some of the best I've ever experienced with anyone.

I have fun being with guys and no matter how they identify - sub, top, bottom, verse, fem, whatever. Who they are as a person has more importance to me than being a sub/fem/power bottom or whatever...

Hi KDaddy,

I always enjoy what you post or write here. It’s real pleasure.. really.
unlike some here, I had the opportunity to bottom only twice. The first one was almost 7 inches and thick, the second was 8.5. I have nothing against small dicks given that getting one itself is a gift by itself.
I was just trying to get a different perspective.

[Long Duck Dong]

1) yeah size does not really make a difference.... tho I do want to feel something at least and not feel like I am being skewered......
For me, its all been about the skill of the person the cocks attached to...
I have a intersex female partner, born with a cock and a pussy and she can use it better than some guys I have been fucked by......

2) shit, thats a hard question, I have been fucked from behind, standing up in a shower and that felt good as they had one hand under my jaw and the other across my chest, with their head on my shoulder so I could hear them breathing while they were fucking me with short deep thrusts that were partly lifting me from the floor......I actually love being fucked like that....
My partner loves me on my stomach so I am * at her mercy * or laying on my back so she can kiss me before she fucks the hell out of me.
Riding her cock, is something I like, as long as my leg does not cramp.

3) I am not sub or fem, in the sense that my partner is dominant but I am sub in I find pleasure from letting her take the lead, even when shes under me and I am deep inside her, cos she loves me being fucked into her by another guy....
and there are times that she loves to lay on her stomach or doggie style so I can fuck her however she wants to be fucked, pussy, anal or both......

We both like to loose ourselves in the sensations of each other, and its not uncommon for me to be sucking her cock or eating her out, with her hands in my hair, guiding me and her mouth to seek my cock and and try and choke herself on it, because shes enjoying herself so much......

If I tried to force her to suck my cock and trued to choke her, chances are she would bite me... .and she has made that clear......so yeah sometimes I have grabbed her hair and guided her mouth to my cock, and let her deep throat it as she wishes, she enjoys that because she knows that I know her rules.

[jjourneyman]

Hands down (no pun intended), whether I'm on top or bottom, I prefer doggy. When I'm topping, I find it more satisfying because it allows for deeper penetration and I get better leverage. As a bottom, I find it more stimulating physically because of the angle of penetration, and psychologically it allows me to perform submissively.

In terms of cock size, my preference is anywhere from six to ten inches. I know that sounds like quite a range, but for me, a thick six inch cock will make me cum just as easily as a hard 10 inch dick.

When it comes to oral, I try not to be too picky in terms of size. Ideally eight to nine inches would be my preference, and that my partner be clean shaven or very neatly trimmed. Position-wise, I like to be kneeling or seated.

[Jazminedress]

I prefer doggy, or laying flat from behind, nothing too big, I actually prefer smaller as I can concentrate on fun and not worry about the size. I also, find the guys about 5 inches, and maybe a little thinner put more effort into both of us having fun and not just the crutch of being big

[KDaddy23]

Hi KDaddy,

I always enjoy what you post or write here. It’s real pleasure.. really.
unlike some here, I had the opportunity to bottom only twice. The first one was almost 7 inches and thick, the second was 8.5. I have nothing against small dicks given that getting one itself is a gift by itself.
I was just trying to get a different perspective.

When you need perspective, I do try to provide it for you - no such thing as too much information. Not all of us like giant cocks in our asses; "best position" is whatever position you like being in for comfort and stimulation. You ask questions, you get answers!

[cornholejoe]

on my back legs in the air prefer 6 to 7 inchs

[Older Past]

I've only had anal with one guy but spent about a year with him.
A bit over 8 inches. on my back while holding my legs as close to my chest as I could and would almost always orgasm

I consider my self sub kind of fem but not overtly

[BackyardShaman]

I like to bottom and for sizes I prefer a regular 5 or 6 inches and average width. But what really matters is the guy and how he fucks me, I do have a good friend that is extremely wide and it can be uncomfortable especially at first, but he?s good with his approach and hasn?t hurt me, but it?s not really comfortable. I like bending over to take it regardless of size. I don?t think too much about sub dom feminine etc.

[dicktrobing]

My questions for tops and bottoms


1) I?ve heard that it?s not the size that matters but how one uses it. As a bottom, have you found that a bigger cock feels better inside you?

2) Is there a position that you find is more enjoyable? I have found that doggie was the best. It gave me ? earth shattering? orgasms triggered from my prostrate.

3) How do you define ?Sub? or ?Fem?? Do you see more fun being with a sub or fem? In what way?


1) I'm a bit of an anal slut so bigger is good for me, having said that any cock fucking me is better than none

2) Position wise I do like doggy butt nothing beat laying in a sling and being fucked. The great thing about missionary and slings is you get to look into each others eyes, your nipples are easier to play with oh and kissing

3) The terms 'fem' sub' 'bottom' are just labels if you want to identify with one, more or none of them that is for you to chose. If one of them helps you line up with a another guy who is looking for a label then that's ok. Personally I'm just a guy who likes sex with other men.

[Tight1-4u]

#1: size,, I am going to say that yes size matters but not in the way you might think.. for me I prefer girth over length.. I love to feel full.. you get that very full feeling from girth.. I would much rather have a guy that is 6” and gitrthy than one that is long and skinny.. but both on the other hand together wow.. and yes the guy makes all the difference.. if he knows how to use what he has then he will always be better than a guy that don’t no matter how big he is!!!
#2: positions,, I like a lot of different positions for different reasons.. doggy is always a good way to start out.. it is easy for both of you and allows him to drive in quite deep.. gives you the opportunity to move or bounce back agents him..
spoons,, is very pleasurable and relaxing as being bottom he does all the work and you pretty much lay there taking it..
Missionary,, my all time favorite.. there is so much more to sex and love making than just penetration.. it can all be done from this position,, kissing, making out, breast and nipple play, him pounding away and getting very deep, you pushing bouncing back into him.. this is my favorite position..
#3: sub, fem, I am very very submissive.. I live a very alpha male life.. being able to just turn that all off and give over control to my guys is very erotic to me.. knowing they are getting exactly what they want and how they want is very erotic.. now I am not all that fem but I am sissy minded.. that being said, the difference to and for me is that being fem in my mind is going all out dressing, hair, makeup, the walk, the voice, the mannerisms.. sissy minded on the other hand is more a mind set.. it is for me as soon as a cock comes out I feel very female, not fem.. I have a switch somewhere that gets flipped when his cock is out.. I need to touch it, feel it, play with it, suck it, and when it is hard and ready I need it inside me.. being sissy minded I really love being talked to treated and fucked as if I were a female.. I love aggressive forward sex.. use every part of me the way you would a female.. then do it again!!!

[IncuBI slut]

Girth feels better but a little extra length is good too, but it does matter how the person attached to the cock uses it.

Nothing wrong with an average sized cock that knows how to hit the good spots and keep the right rhythm.

"Too small" can be a problem though.

Too short can't reach the "good spots" properly, and getting fucked doesn't really feel like anything unfortunetly.

I've let a couple of guys who were under-hung fuck me ('Cause hats off to them for showing up and being upfront-ish about their anatomy. That takes some confidence!) And I have to say the situation and sluttiness did more to get me off than the actual fucking and sucking.

As for positions; I prefer doggy, dorsal (sideways), lap sitting, or in a sling.
On my back with my legs up (without a sling) just isn't comfortable and I find I can't move to adjust where things feel good, or to adjust for depth or speed or body weight.

Personal definitions? Well, I'm masculine and certainly not fem, and I'm not subby.

I prefer "slutty", it feels like a description that fits my behaviours, modes and preferences more accurately.