thinking about different genders while having sex.

[Daisy999]

Anyone here ever wind up thinking about the opposite sex of the person you're having sex with, while you're having sex?

Like it's not something you do on purpose it just happens out of nowhere. Like I'll be having sex with my boyfriend and I'll wind up thinking about having sex with a woman or people who don't put themselves into either box labeled "man" or "woman".

Of course I do fall somewhere in between bisexual and lesbian, so who knows?

[nothings5d]

Well, I'm still a virgin, but I do find that my fantasies have a tendency to swap back and forth between men and women in the middle. Rarely ever though do my fantasies include bot a man and a woman, though 2 men or 2 women is actually quite common. So I guess you could say that I do, "from a certain point of view."

[nwmscurious]

Yeah, I've found from time to time that as my wife is giving me oral I'll fantasize about a guy's lips wrapped around me.

[Domino]

As long as you are not thinking about donkys, it's all good.

[bohemian69]

I really don't think it is really any differtent than fantsizing about having sex with someone you know or having sex with someone famous...As long as you are willing to do all of your own stunts....enjoy!!!!!!!!!! :bigrin: :bigrin:

[Resurrection]

this happens to me a lot.

[matterinhand]

Because we've had several mmf 3soms, which my wife has enjoyed both as a participant and a watcher (i.e. watching me and him), she loves me making suggestions about what we could be doing with another man as we're making love.
For example, she was giving me a bj the other day and I asked her if she'd like to be watching a friend of ours doing that to me. The muffled sounds of pleasure, and the increased wetness where my fingers were, showed her approval of the idea.
And for me it worked because I could, for a moment, imagine it was him instead of her.

[littlej1019]

I do it a lot, too. I often imagine I'm having sex with the woman, and another man will either put his dick between our faces so we can both suck him, or he enters me from behind, adding some extra "oomph" to my thrusts.

[mistymornings]

I often think about making love with another woman while my husband and I are having sex. Sometimes I strap on one of my toys and take him up the ass, all the while thinking it is some hot babes pussy! :tong:

[sammie19]

While having sex or making love I am too wrapped up in the moment to contemplate anyone other than my partner.