What is sexy?

[Bi-ten]

Hello everyone,

There has been lots of interesting talk about fetishes, preferences, fantasies, and top 10 lists. These questions got me thinking (always dangerous) about what people really find sexy.

I thought long and hard (pardon the expression) about what I find sexy. To me it is someone who is able to let go completely and be in the moment with me... to moan, scream yell, laugh and play during the experience. Hell, I don't even have to be naked to enjoy someone like that:)

Your thoughts are appreciated!

[arana]

Romantic, passionate and playful are sexy to me. Someone that makes you feel comfortable enough to let go completely, be wild and imaginative. Someone who enjoys exploring and being explored. A person that can laugh while having sex. A little kinky is good too. lol

Hugs!

[Lisa (va)]

What is sexy? Many things, but first and foremost a person who feels free to be themselves with me and I with them, both in and out of the bedroom. A positive outlook on life is always a plus, someone who can laugh when things don't go exactly right. Knowing the difference between having sex and lovemaking and knowing that both are very exciting when shared. And of course someone you can share your thoughts and feelings with, sex or otherwise, and that person not only hears but listens.

Lisa

hugs n kisses

[HotBiFem]

Having a connection with someone, as well as being totally free to explore all your desires. Pleasuring your partner and having that add to your arousal, is rewarding for both party's. Holding each other and feeling that connection is stronger than I can describe in words, that is the sexiest of all.

[cplfun13]

confidence, honesty, and the ability to put yourself before another is very sexy to me. I also find salt and pepper hair sexy, tanned feet, and the ability to laugh at oneself. SEXY..

[codybear3]

The ability to be yourself in public and behind closed doors. The sweet sounds of ecstasy when making love. The look on my lovers face as he surpasses suspended bliss. And SweetBlackAngel wearing nothing but sexy lacy underwear...But the last is just my imagination unless I can get her to "give in"...(hint hint) :bigrin:

[SweetBlackAngel]

The ability to be yourself in public and behind closed doors. The sweet sounds of ecstasy when making love. The look on my lovers face as he surpasses suspended bliss. And SweetBlackAngel wearing nothing but sexy lacy underwear...But the last is just my imagination unless I can get her to "give in"...(hint hint) :bigrin:

That's quite a vivid imagination you have there, O Bearish One. :tongue:
Will a leather bra and thong do instead? As for "giving in"...well, that part is....negotiable.... :tong: :bounce: :bigrin:

[codybear3]

My SweetBlackAngel...A simple scratch behind my ears will have me loyal to you for eternity. But I do love surprises...especially sexy ones... :smirlove2 :rotate: :love: :paw:

[SweetBlackAngel]

My SweetBlackAngel...A simple scratch behind my ears will have me loyal to you for eternity. But I do love surprises...especially sexy ones... :smirlove2 :rotate: :love: :paw:

*scratches cody behind the ears*

Wow, I've never heard a bear purr before. I wonder what would happen if I rubbed your....belly..?? ;) :tong: :smilies15

[codybear3]

*scratches cody behind the ears*

Wow, I've never heard a bear purr before. I wonder what would happen if I rubbed your....belly..?? ;) :tong: :smilies15


...Rub my belly and I lovingly nuzzle... :kiss: :drool: :smoke: :paw:

[Bi-ten]

Ok,

Besides this shameless flirtation between Codybear and Sweetblackangel (yes I'm jealous lol) what else is sexy?

I love it when a lady plays with her hair, or shyly looks back over her shoulder at me :flag1:

[wellred]

“What is sexy?” depends on my mood. But when I am receptive, “sexy” generally carries an element of surprise. Some “sexy” stimuli could be:

a lady’s leg emerging from a slit in a skirt;

a hand stroked across the back of my neck;

sustained eye contact, or an unexpected wink;

the smell of sawdust;

a kiss on the inner side of my wrist;

barefoot walks on the sand;

sweat beads on a working man;

gliding my hand across a marble sculpture;

a directed smile from across a crowded room;

the sound of giggles on the pillow next to me;

accidentally brushing against a women’s perfumed hair
as in an elevator;

a firm handshake from a stranger…

Am I "too easy"? ... "yes"

[SweetBlackAngel]

Ok,

Besides this shameless flirtation between Codybear and Sweetblackangel (yes I'm jealous lol) what else is sexy?

I love it when a lady plays with her hair, or shyly looks back over her shoulder at me :flag1:

Oooh...busted! :tongue: :bigrin:

Well, I may as well answer the original question then, eh?

I find a deep, throaty laugh very sexy. And a nice, firm backside. Mmmmm.... :bounce:

[codybear3]

[QUOTE=Bi-ten]Ok,

Besides this shameless flirtation between Codybear and Sweetblackangel (yes I'm jealous lol) what else is sexy?

But, but, but...Jealous of who, Bi-Ten? LOL :rolleyes:

[bigregory]

Sexy.
Well it's about anything i think.
It the way a peson wears it and the way your brain receives it..
I guess its a physical thing, be it a tight ass, a moan,a wave,or as my wife likes, a guy in tight ass hugging jeans wearing a tool pouch.For me it's the little things that can be the sexiest. Like a leather mini skirt,or a very small thong... :tong: :tongue:

[Bi-ten]

But, but, but...Jealous of who, Bi-Ten? LOL :rolleyes:

Dearest Codybear,

Some people find mystery very sexy...therefore I will leave the answer to your imagination;)

Hugs,

[mike9753]

Sexy comes from within and shines on the outside. Two women with great legs, that dress well could be identical in looks but one could be sexy as hell and the other could turn even the biggest horn dog off. Not to be sexist, the same could be said for two well chiseled guys, each with 6 pac abs.

The inner person uses their outter shell to project their sexyness. So I my preferences for how a sexy person could project their sexyness are:

legs in shear hose with heels,
a smile and a glint in th eye,
a skirt with a slit on the side,
off the shoulder dresses,
satin or silky clothing worn with confidence,
a white shirt, blue jeans and bare feet,
short shorts,
a woman, covered completely by black robes, with just her eyes visible (I spent a few years working in the Middle East),
red nail polish on fingers and toes,
small feet, with a pedicure,
miniskirts and high heels,
long dresses that cling,
billowy pants worn with heels,
bare midriffs and inny navels,
little black dresses,
someone playing with my ear while I drive or sit in a dark movie theater watching a movie,
playful intimacy - touching, caressing, lying on each other while doing everyday things - watching TV, reading the paper on Sunday morning,
listening to what I have to say with a smile of understanding,

I could go on and on. Somethings are blantantly sexy and others are very subtle. I like them both.

Mike

[codybear3]

Dearest Codybear,

Some people find mystery very sexy...therefore I will leave the answer to your imagination;)

Hugs,

**codybear pulls on his hair**

Bi-ten, this answer will drive me to drink...Anybody wanna come along? :bigrin:

[curious28TX]

What isn't sexy? I think there is just too much that I consider sexy. Anything that gets me going even when I'm not turned on at all will do it and that can be just about anything. I'd better stop before I get myself all worked up. hehe

[bigregory]

Ok Biten there is no answer.......

[Bi-ten]

A few more...

A woman that knows what she wants and goes for it... and a sensitive caring guy.

PS- Codybear, don't pull out your hair or we will have to re-name you! I will join you for a drink, and sweetblackangel can join:)

A bientot!

[csrakate]

All I've got to say is that Wellred and Mike9753 both stated their preferences so eloquently that they could have said "watching someone throw up a $200 dinner" and it would have sounded sexy. My idea of sexy...a man, or anyone for that matter, who can tell it like it is and make it sound so sincere and heartfelt!!! Thank you Wellred and Mike9753 for bringing the spoken word to a sexy level!


Kate

[csrakate]

I certainly didn't mean to leave you out of the round of kudos Bi-Ten...the playing with the hair thing and the backward glance were very well stated!!!! And if I ever meet you face to face...here is a little hair play and backward glance for you!!! LOL

Kate

[SweetBlackAngel]

**codybear pulls on his hair**

Bi-ten, this answer will drive me to drink...Anybody wanna come along? :bigrin:


Well, if you're taking volunteers...count me in! :tong: :kiss:

[Bi-ten]

Hey Csrakate,

Just wanted to say 'anytime' your are feeling the need to play (er...with your hair), please call me LOL.

Hugs

[SweetBlackAngel]

A few more...

A woman that knows what she wants and goes for it... and a sensitive caring guy.

PS- Codybear, don't pull out your hair or we will have to re-name you! I will join you for a drink, and sweetblackangel can join:)

A bientot!

Why, Bi-ten, I'd love to join you and cody for a drink. If we all get a bit tipsy, who knows what can happen?? :tongue: :bigrin: :bounce:

[wellred]

All I've got to say is that Wellred and Mike9753 both stated their preferences so eloquently that they could have said "watching someone throw up a $200 dinner" and it would have sounded sexy. My idea of sexy...a man, or anyone for that matter, who can tell it like it is and make it sound so sincere and heartfelt!!! Thank you Wellred and Mike9753 for bringing the spoken word to a sexy level!


Kate

Golly...I don't know how to make "$200 vomit" sound sexy. But did I mention that I am easy? Your flattery is sexy, Kate. Boing!

[nakedambrosia]

Sexy starts in the brain. Being nude at a nudist resort enjoying the sun, swimming nude and enjoying the outdoors nude are incredible sensual experiences. Sensuality is sexy which perhaps later brings about sexual arousal with a partner in private. I find that when the sexy candle is lit in the brain first, it causes real hyper excitement later.

[Bi-ten]

Why, Bi-ten, I'd love to join you and cody for a drink. If we all get a bit tipsy, who knows what can happen?? :tongue: :bigrin: :bounce:

Dear SweetBlackAngel,

Be still my heart, who says we need to drink? You can't run a marathon when your hammered lol. P.S. How far is Maryland from Toronto anyway?

Hugs dear

[SweetBlackAngel]

Dear SweetBlackAngel,

Be still my heart, who says we need to drink? You can't run a marathon when your hammered lol. P.S. How far is Maryland from Toronto anyway?

Hugs dear

A marathon, eh? That's some energy there, Bi-ten. ;) Are you implying that you are....*ahem*....hard....to keep up with? :tong:

Hugs back at ya. :bigrin:

[BiBiologist]

In Grad school, we had a Greek student who came to study in the US, followed by his fiance about a year later. When she arrived, we all went out for pizza. I was sitting next to her, this absolutely gorgeous Greek goddess who I was meeting for the first time, and she was teaching me to say "I love you" in Greek so I could say it to my husband. I don't remember the words, just her eyes looking deeply into mine, as if she meant it for me, and I was saying it back to her. I could have melted right under the table.