anal

[shaneph]

so here it is ive been fucking my ass every night for the past few nights been using the same dildos one 12" 1.5 girth a glass one with anal beads from large to small and then a 10" with a 2.5" girth that ones my fave but it seems like tonight that the big one hurting more than usual now dont get me wrong i can take some big dick and i like it but can to much really hurt me and how :flag2: :male: :bounce:

[Da Doctor]

You can easily tear the lining in your anus. which could lead to infections. next be careful what you stick up there. The E.R. visits can be embarassing.

[happyjoe68]

so here it is ive been fucking my ass every night for the past few nights been using the same dildos one 12" 1.5 girth a glass one with anal beads from large to small and then a 10" with a 2.5" girth that ones my fave but it seems like tonight that the big one hurting more than usual now dont get me wrong i can take some big dick and i like it but can to much really hurt me and how :flag2: :male: :bounce:

Every night? I think your body is trying to tell you something ...

[maxtor]

you need a warm body next to yours with a nice hard cock in you instead of that dildo that you use. the real thing wont tear you unless he is huge. it is soft as well as hard so you need to have a regular partner to help you out.

[Tingly_Tickles]

Don't need a partner hell I've never managed to hurt myself before with one
or the other but eh everybody's different I suppose.

[eyelinerprincess]

I heard a story from a trainee doctor about someone who had shoved a potato and a tin of beans up there and had to get part of their colon taken out...

[DiamondDog]

Be very careful what you put in yourself!

Make sure there aren't any sharp edges and it has a wide base so it doesn't get stuck in you and you have to go to the ER.

Also make sure that whatever you put into yourself is very clean.

Personally I wouldn't put anything in myself that isn't designed to go in there for anal stimulation/anal sex, like a finger or a toy like a g-spot vibrator or small plug.

I wash the toy with soap and water first, put a lubed condom on it, put lube on the toy, and use lots of lube the way you're supposed to! Then afterwards I'll just throw the rubber out and wash the toy with soap and water again.

I don't do it that often and it's kinda painful/uncomfortable for me but it's more of a rare once or twice a year type of thing, if that.

Are you using lube? It's OK to use oil based lubes when you're alone like corn oil or coconut oil but if you're with a partner DO NOT use one when you have him or her fuck you with a condom over their cock/strapon dildo as oil based lubes will eat away at the condom and make it break. Just use silicon/water based lubes as these work better and are safer.

You're probably not used to anal width and that's why it's hurting you. Try using a few fingers or a few small toys all at once.

Also, go REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY slow and don't just ram it in there.

The anal lining can tear really easily and it can do this without you knowing it. I've had friends use plugs that are designed for anal sex and they wound up bleeding.

As for me, I'm not that into anal sex at all and I find it to be the most highly overrated sex act ever and it's just discomfort/pain and feels like going to the bathroom backwards and normally to me even when I'm cleaned out.

Don't use water/enemas to clean yourself out they cause more problems than they solve and they spread STDs/HIV if you're with a partner and you'll become dependant on them and as long as things are running normally (i.e. you're not constipated and you can take a crap) just take a crap normally and wash yourself normally like you would with soap and water when you take a shower, and space out your meals and you'll be fine.

Douching/enemas aren't needed at all if you have a healthy anus/colon/lower digestive tract and they're not that safe for you.

I'm just giving you advice that my hardcore bottom friends have told me over the years.