taz's grandpa

[Mrs. Taz]

Just wanted to let you all know that taz has lost his grandpa, to a heart attack today 10/22/05. taz may not be in chat much for a while again also due to the loss. however he does need his friends support and love right now. I am posting this here so he can atleast read for himself here what everyone has to say. I also want to let you know taz that I do love you and I always will. what ever you need just say so and I will do my best to get it for you.

lots of love,hugs,and kisses taz,


kitten

[m.in.heels&hose]

kitten, and more so taz
i am very sorry about the loss of your granfather, i wish there was something i could say to take away your pain, but we both know there very little to say that would make you feel better

it is my hope that you have lots of pleasent memories of your grandpa, i know i have plenty of mine and that does help with the pain
and as the years pass the pain will be much less and the memories will be as vivid
god bless you and your family taz
your friend!!! m.in.heels&hose

[gina42]

taz,
i am truely sadden in your lose...i know what it is to lose someone you love very much and i do not know you that well but if you need a friend,i am always here to listen and try and help anyway i can,and remember my friend you have people who care about you hear and im sure anyone would be hear for you....take care my friend....hugzzzz gina.

ps.
kitten,you are a sweetheart my friend and if you need to talk to im here for you as well,and your right this is a time where taz needs to know he is loved and that he has friends who care and thank you for posting this on his behave,you are a wounderful girl friend to taz,may you both always have happiness my friend

[lily3662]

Taz, even though we have never spoken I wanted to tell you how sorry I am to hear of your lose. I know the pain that you are going through. I recently suffered the lose of someone close to me and I know the pain can be unbearable at times, just remember that you have people that care about you here on this site. Your family and friends and not to mention your lovely lady, so remember to turn to them (us) whenever you need to talk or you just need a shoulder. I will keep you in my thoughts and pray's.

[Curious Cat]

Taz I just wanted to wish you my deepest condolences, and hope that you are able to see us again soon. You are kitten are a wonderful couple and pleasant to talk to, and will be missed while you are away. byes for now.

[codybear3]

My deepest condolences Taz and family.

[texasman6172003]

Hi Taz, Iam truly sorry to hear about you loss. Its allways hard to lose a loved one. If you need to talk look me up. Kitten be there for him as i know you are. God bless you both and yuor family.,,, Tex.

[taz67156]

hey everyone,
It's Taz and just wanted to that you all for what you each have said in the replies so far it helped me out knowing that you are there for me if and when I really need it I've still got a long way to go with all of this and its going to be very hard and full of stress for me but I've got to take it weather I like it or not. And to kitten thank you for starting this post for me:)


TAZ67156

[Mrs. Taz]

anytime taz, I love you and I will always be there for you, even when you may think you dont need me to be or want me to be, I will be there. Till the end of time my love, I'm here. :)

love, hugs,and kisses,

kitten

[arana]

:grouphug: Taz, I'm so sorry for your loss. I've lost quite a few of my relatives over the past few months and years, one of them being my grandpa so I know how you feel. It's really hard to lose people you grew up with. To suddenly have them no longer in your life physically can be so heartbreaking, but they would want you to move on and think of the happy memories they have given you. We're here for you sweetie. :grouphug:

Hugs,
Arana

[curious married m]

Taz, I am a liitle late getting to the posts and hearing about your loss. Add me to that long list of those who understand the pain you are feeling right now. But one thing you have that will help you through it is that little sparkplug who brought you to our room and gave us the pleasure of knowing you. Both Kitten and you are special and have more than once helped me smile when I was hurting. And if it helps, the fine man you are is in part due to the good times and hard lessons you learned from your grandpa. And he is now in a spot in your heart continuing to live and guide you. Try to make it to KC with Kitten so I can personally say thanx for all you do. It is ok to hurt but this too shall pass and the tools your grandfather have given you will help you deal with the stresses in your life. CMM

[smurf111978]

Dear Kitten & Taz

I'm deeply sorry to hear of your loss you have my love, sympathy and support in this difficult time.

I have lost many close relatives in recent years so I know how hard and upsetting a time this can be so if you need to talk I'm always here for you.

I'm not a religous person but I do like to believe our loved ones goto a special and better place when they pass on. And of course they will always be with you in your heart and happy memories.

Love & hugs
Smurf
xxxoooxxx

[aussie blonde]

Taz,
Aussie and I would like to extend our condolences on the loss of your grandfather, just thought you'd like to know that our prayers and thoughts are with you in such a difficult time.


Chook & Aussie

[csrakate]

Taz,
My heart goes out to you during this time. I know it is difficult to lose someone you love, but as Kitten and I discussed last night, they never really leave you. You will have memories to last a lifetime. And some nights, when you least expect it, you will have dreams that make you feel that he has truly "visited" you.

Take care of yourself and let us know if there is anything we can do. Take the time to grieve and don't push it. We all grieve in different ways and some take longer than others. But don't ignore the pain and don't try to hide it. And lean on Kitten if you need to...she is there for you and it doesn't make you less than a man to lean on your loving girl now and then.

Take care and know that you'll be in my thoughts and prayers.

Hugs!
Kate

[wellred]

Hello Taz,

I wish that I knew more about you and your grandfather. Perhaps, then I could find more appropriate words to offer you comfort.

Angelo Patri wrote: "In one sense there is no death. The life of a soul on earth lasts beyond his departure. You will always feel that life touching yours, that voice speaking to you, that spirit looking out of other eyes, talking to you in familiar things he touched, worked with, loved as familiar friends. He lives on in your life and in the lives of all others that knew him."

Travel in Love and Light, Taz.

- Red

[ladydelanie]

Taz,
I am so sorry to hear of your dagrandpa's passing. I know how much pain I was in when I lost my dad, being a "daddys girl" and talking to him everyday.

You know Taz we all believe different things, however I feel my dad's presence all the time. Like he is just beyond a veil. At times that is comforting and at times it is even more painful. I still talk to him in my heart everyday. I wish I could tell you that your pain will go away. I wish I could tell you not to feel sad, and yes Taz even mad. However, I cant. Just remember the wonderful times, laugh and cry. Be thankful you had a wonderful grandpa.

When my dad died I spoke at his funeral (I ask myself how I was able to do that now) but somehow I managed.

I told everyone how proud I was that God chose to give me to such a wonderful father, I felt like I was the blessed one!!.......So my friend.....hold up your head and be proud.......and when I get sad.......and yes I do 7 yrs later I read these words......and smile and go on!!.......I know my dad wants me to.......Peace and prayers to you and yours........Ladydelanie :)


I Did Not Die
Melinda Sue Pacho

Do not stand at my grave and forever weep.
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn’s rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and forever cry.
I am not there. I did not die.

[Ratchick]

Taz,
My thoughts and good wishes to you and yours as your family mourns the loss of yoru grandfather.

Hugs,
Ratchick

[jo69guy]

My condolencses to taz and his family. I lost my great uncle week before last, and I know this is a tough time for all of you.

God's peace

[gina42]

Taz,
I am so sorry to hear of your dagrandpa's passing. I know how much pain I was in when I lost my dad, being a "daddys girl" and talking to him everyday.

You know Taz we all believe different things, however I feel my dad's presence all the time. Like he is just beyond a veil. At times that is comforting and at times it is even more painful. I still talk to him in my heart everyday. I wish I could tell you that your pain will go away. I wish I could tell you not to feel sad, and yes Taz even mad. However, I cant. Just remember the wonderful times, laugh and cry. Be thankful you had a wonderful grandpa.

When my dad died I spoke at his funeral (I ask myself how I was able to do that now) but somehow I managed.

I told everyone how proud I was that God chose to give me to such a wonderful father, I felt like I was the blessed one!!.......So my friend.....hold up your head and be proud.......and when I get sad.......and yes I do 7 yrs later I read these words......and smile and go on!!.......I know my dad wants me to.......Peace and prayers to you and yours........Ladydelanie :)


I Did Not Die
Melinda Sue Pacho

Do not stand at my grave and forever weep.
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn’s rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and forever cry.
I am not there. I did not die.


taz,
like lady_d..i took in my mid 20's lost my mother to cancer and my father a year later to cancer and heart problems and than a year after that my grandfather passed away and i was blown away losing them in 3 years..and i want you know my friend we all deal and greive differently but a very wise person(my grandmother)told me that no matter where i go or what i do,they are always with me in my heart and sole..and when i feel the need to be close to my parents or my grampa i close my eyes and remember happy times with them...and just so you know i was a grampas girl and now i look after my gram,and im her girl too :)
but hon hold your head up and think of good times you had with your gramp and know you have friends here who love you,take care,ginaxxxx
ps..
i too have seen that pome before somewhere awhile back its a nice pome

[cchalmer]

Taz and Kitten......from CuriousLady and I our hearfelt sympathies for your loss. No matter how close you were to him it hurts. I never thought I cared that much about my grandfather until he wasn't there anymore. As time goes on you will be able to think about him and your memories with less and less pain.....

[Bicuriousity]

Taz
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

[taz67156]

thanks everyone for posting something for me and being there for me when I needed a friend or several friends to chat with it really helped me get through this its hard for me to explain how I feel since you all was there and I hope that I can be for any of you when you really need somebody to chat with about something :)

TAZ67156

[Mrs. Taz]

The same goes for me with everyone that helped. And also I wanted to tell you taz that I will be there for you anytime you need me, and even when you think you dont. Everyone needs someone. I probably shouldnt say this, but, you know now why every chance I get I always tell you that I love you, and why one time I told you I wanted to tell the world. I guess now, technically, I have told the world, atleast parts of the world anyway. Always and forever taz, I will be there, and forever and always love you. :kiss: :love:


kitten

[Bi-ten]

Dear Taz,

I am truely sorry to hear of your loss. I wish you and your Family the peace of God's love.

Hugs