hi all

[fransic]

hi everyone new member here just wanted to say hello
im bi guy with very understanding wife......in fact she loves my bi side more than i do........ wanted to ask if anyone else has any problems with guilt after having mm or ff sex or is it just me any help would be appreciated

[tracie18]

Hello and welcome,

the first i had ff sex i had no guilt and i still dont, because i have been sexually assulted twcie by guys i have no feelings towards them, and the only sexual thing i have done with a guy i had no say as the assulted me.

but my ex gf says she had guilt at first when she had ff sex but it soon pass once she knew that ff is better then fm sex.. hope i help ya

[fransic]

i love the sex and the choices my sexuality brings just struggle for a while with guilt ........ it really gets to me sometimes, maybe because i live in a straight environment,i feel like a different person when im with a man, i have difficulty switching back to my "straight" lifestyle

[MrsShy2BlazinBi]

Hello to all as well. I am also new to the site, trying to learn the ropes, so to speak, myself. I spose it'll get easier when people get to know my sarcastic humor instead of takin me as bein a bitch. LOL
Anyhoo....to answer your question - coming from a married woman who has had ff sex absent from my partner, as well as fmf with him - I had no feelings of guilt, jealousy over him being with her - even without me, or any negative emotions with any of it. But, we are very secure with each other, aware and confident with our sexuality and both very open about it. So, possibly if I had to switch from bisexual to pretend str8 lifestyle.....which I would think would be because I felt like I had to keep it a secret, which then leads to feelings of guilt....I can see where guilt may factor in.
Just my thougts and experience with the subject....but I have been told by many that I am a very rare breed of woman. LMAO
Just try to be true to yourself and know that it is ok to accept who you truly are....even if you have to keep it on the down low, that doesn't mean it's a horrid thing.
Best of luck!
Cheers!
Shy

[MarieDelta]

Hi guys http://i194.photobucket.com/albums/z84/mariesophia66/welcome-1.gif Great to have you here!

[fred jones]

Hi y'all. This seems to be the new guys' post. So, being a new guy...HI!

I still can't get into the chat. But, I'm working on the firewall settings.

[lessanguish9]

Hey, I'm lessanguish9, and am new to site myself...to answer your question from my perspective and experience...I would feel guilty if there were deceit involved...it just isn't fair or safe, but, otherwise, I think it's a great situation if everyone's comfortable and up for it...and, of course, clean. Also, hello everyone...am looking forward to contact.

[MarieDelta]

Great to have you here guys. Hope to see you around :)