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Rohan28s
Nov 23, 2007, 4:43 AM
27 Yr old here, from Australia. I notice the American content, I've been to your country 3 times & have to say you have some of the nicest people I've ever encountered.

I've slept with about 11 girls this YR, not until recently did I ever think about guys in a different light to which I had. I must say when I look at porn, I've got off on both looking at a girl & guy doing it.

1 night feeling confused, went onto a chat site & a guy invited me over. I targeted an older guy, as I basically wanted to be shown how to do it. I surprised myself, went over, got sucked off, sucked him off & had a mutual wank. At first I had to have a look at porn to get hard, but I stayed hard throughout. Felt a bit dirty, so next weekend made a point of sleeping with a girl for the sake of it, which I felt gulity about.

I'm extremely curious to do it again with a guy, a much older guy but at the same time I'm attracted to females. I just love being naked & the thought itself is very arousing.

I know it's a hard ? but would you think I'm bi or even gay?

FalconAngel
Nov 23, 2007, 5:01 AM
At the very least, you could be bi-curious.

There is also a whole myriad of things you could be. Pansexual, for one. Doubt that you're gay, but anything is possible.
Being Bi covers a whole range of things, all of which can vary from person to person.

Some bisexuals are only interested in same sex couplings for pleasure with their opposite sex partners are of a romantic and sexual nature, while others are only interested in opposite sex couplings for pleasure with their same sex partner being in a romantic and sexual situation. And the variations in that run the gamut, including, but not limited to being physically and emotionally attracted to both genders in varying degrees.

Explore your interests and don't feel guilty if you sleep with a man and a woman. Just accept it and see how you feel about it while you are doing it.

musqrat
Nov 23, 2007, 8:17 AM
27 Yr old here, from Australia. I notice the American content, I've been to your country 3 times & have to say you have some of the nicest people I've ever encountered.

I've slept with about 11 girls this YR, not until recently did I ever think about guys in a different light to which I had. I must say when I look at porn, I've got off on both looking at a girl & guy doing it.

1 night feeling confused, went onto a chat site & a guy invited me over. I targeted an older guy, as I basically wanted to be shown how to do it. I surprised myself, went over, got sucked off, sucked him off & had a mutual wank. At first I had to have a look at porn to get hard, but I stayed hard throughout. Felt a bit dirty, so next weekend made a point of sleeping with a girl for the sake of it, which I felt gulity about.

I'm extremely curious to do it again with a guy, a much older guy but at the same time I'm attracted to females. I just love being naked & the thought itself is very arousing.

I know it's a hard ? but would you think I'm bi or even gay?

You're bi if you want to be. Sounds like you might be a 1 or 2 on the Kinsey scale. Do you find yourself attracted to men at all? When you're walking down the street do guys ever turn your eye?

Rohan28s
Nov 23, 2007, 8:26 AM
You're bi if you want to be. Sounds like you might be a 1 or 2 on the Kinsey scale. Do you find yourself attracted to men at all? When you're walking down the street do guys ever turn your eye?

More attracted to guys in porn.

*pan*
Nov 23, 2007, 11:16 AM
if you enjoyed being with the guy and getting off with him and still like being with girls and getting off with them then i would say you are bisexual, only time will tell, i don't have the feelings of guilt, my beliefs and feelings are a bit different from the main stream, being pagan i see no wrong in sex or pleasure with either sex as long as it harms noone. so therefore theres no guilt baggage to contend with and i enjoy sex with either men or woman equaly.

slocum5
Nov 23, 2007, 3:24 PM
To me, it's more of a personality issue. I've had relationships with ladies wherein we meshed on many levels beyond sex. Those relationships were delightfully comfortable. Sex was the icing on the cake. I put sex with guys on the back burner. It was the same with two guys with whom I had extended relationships. As I think Falcon once posted, your sexuality may vary over the years. These relatioships were in my early years. Fortunately, I met amd married a bisexual lady. Over many years, we enjoyed the best of both worlds. The relationship seemed to dispel the negative feeling she had regarding her desire for other women. I never had those misgivings. The world "will little note nor long remember" what I did here.

Live without regret.

shameless agitator
Nov 23, 2007, 4:08 PM
You sound bi to me. Only you can answer that question for sure, of course though. I say just accept that you're attracted to who you're attracted to, & don't worry so much about the labels

Doggie_Wood
Nov 24, 2007, 11:24 AM
You could be. What do you think. The one that really knows for sure is always available.