supposed to be a woman

[lovesex86]

I think I was originally supposed to be a woman! I have 3 brothers and 2 sisters! The order goes boy girl boy boy (me) boy girl! As far as the order goes, I should have a girl, and I feel I would enjoy life more as a girl! I dream about sucking cock and getting it up the ass, and I am more fulfilled with getting filled other that filling, if that makes sense.......I would love to suck cock and take it up the ass, but if my family knew, I probably would kill myself......any comments....feel free

[DiamondDog]

Just because you're a total bottom for both oral sex and anal sex, and you're not into getting oral sex or giving anal sex, it doesn't mean that you're supposed to be a woman or that you take the feminine role during sex or any of that BS.

As far as wanting to kill yourself goes, get some therapy or talk to a professional about this.

[shameless agitator]

I have to agree with DD. Just being gay does not mean you got stuck with the wrong gender. If there's more to it than you've laid out here, you may want to talk to some TGs. Just kinda compare notes & see if their experience jibes with yours. Either way, therapy would be a good idea.

[lovesex86]

I just think it would be amazing to have a pussy and tits! Having two holes to fill are better than having one! You have heard of penis envy......well I have pussy envy

[MarieDelta]

GID and transgender issues are different from simply wanting sex though.

Wanting to have sex with men, or women has nothing to do with transgender issues.

If you feel that you would truly raher be a woman, then I sugest you find a therapist experienced in gender issue and explore the possibilities with them.

Transition is not something that you should undertake, if you can live some other way and be happy.

But, it is not my job to diagnose, or even to speculate whether you would be good candidate for transition, that should be between you and the therapist.

http://www.drbecky.com/therapists.html

The link will take you to a listing of transgender therapists, not a complete listing by anymeans , but something to get you (and others) started.

[lovesex86]

As much as I would love to be a woman, sex change probably wouldnt work because my family and friends would be freaked out! I have 2 pairs of panties that I wear all the time, and I just imagine having a beautiful pussy to play with

[the sacred night]

I'm kind of that way in reverse. I imagine having a dick and balls, and I get pleasure out of imagining that, but I don't identify as trans. Maybe I'm not quite 100% woman, but I'm certainly not a man, either. If there was a way to do it, I'd enjoy being able to go back and forth, but I have no desire to be a man permanently. I think maybe I'm what's called bi-gendered: I feel like a woman sometimes and a man other times. I feel like a woman far more of the time, though. Even then I'm not quite 100% woman. It's like, if there was a Kinsey Scale for gender, I'd be a 2 or 3.

[MarieDelta]

Do you folks realize that most people don't feel like "real ' Men or Women? that is to sa in our cultur we have set the bar so that it is immpossible to be met.

Yes it is possible to have bigendered feelings, and that is perfectly within the bounds of reason, and there is nothing unnatural about it.

lovesex86: Its a matter of what you want vs what they want. Its then in your court. To quote Dr Suess - “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.”

If they are truely your friends, then they will adjust.

Also I'm just saying that you might want to "explore " this with a therapist. Doesn't mean you go out and get it cut off, you just sit and talk to someone who is knowledgable with this material. Its a date , not a wedding , if you catch my meaning?

But in the end, it is up to you. to quote another famous author-

"And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom."
Anais Nin

All the best,

Marie

[diB4u]

I agree with Marie Delta.

What is it to feel a real man or woman? I have no idea.

the sacred night - then that is called being Androgyne.

http://www.reconnections.net/androgyny.htm

I am me, I can not change who I am, and simply I dont want to. However being who I am, does waver from time to time.


http://www.angelfire.com/biz/mereproject/androgyne.html


Hope that helps.:bigrin: