Why drives you totally nuts - non sexual stuff.

[_Joe_]

I mean, ok a bulge in the right places drives anyone nuts..but what non sexual little quirks do your heart speed up or make you look twice.

For me on women, its a choker. Lace, leather, etc around the neck. I mean just the look of it is enough. the kind folks wear out to work, out to eat, etc. hecking doing a choker search on images.google.com show quite a few sensible ones.

For guys...not sure myself, don't often see them in chokers ><

What else folks?

[Realist]

Are you talking about "good" nuts, or "bad" nuts, here?

[Bi_Druid]

Something not immediately sexual that gets you horny?

Thinks...

tricky. I think the way someone is dressed and turned out can certainly do it for me. A guy who can wear a certain jacket in just that right sort of way that makes you think "phraw", or a las who just wears that skirt at just the right angle to really turn the head. It's a tricky one to put down in one note, but the right sort of clothing worn in just the right way on someone can be a real deal breaker sometimes.
Although to be honest, an equal lack of clothing and exposure of nicely looked after and turned out flesh is just as nice for me. Hehe

The only other things I can think of are all probably a bit soppy for what this thread is looking for really - a nice smile, that twinkle in the eyes, etc.

[the sacred night]

Long hair on a man. A shaved head on a woman. Dreadlocks on either. Hair fetish? Me?

[Lateralus]

Ladies with lots of ink. Hot!!

[writes at night]

Call me shallow, call me simple, but with men, I find a neat but full beard and a twinkle in the eye will make me catch my breath. I can't explain the reason but it just "works'' for me.

With women, I find a ponytail (which I currently CAN'T have as my hair is still growing out) and a pair of conservative glasses make me look twice.

[jem_is_bi]

Computers and computerized appliances that make annoying noises, that make any kind of noises, that are capable of making and kind of annoying noises, that do not have a mute control!!!! Where is my really big hammer? Wait! Let me get an axe too!!!

[innaminka]

Other woman in panties/bra - preferably "functional."
Very, very sexy for me.

A little stray pube escaping is especially lovely.

I'm hopeless.:eek::eek:

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Men. In a pair of brand new bluejeand, and nice shirt. A confidant, flirty attitude. A sly look, naughty smile. And the long hair? OMG yes!
And a nice sweet tight ass as he is walking away from me...
Is it gettin' warm in here??? lol:bigrin:
Cat

[DiamondDog]

Facial hair on men (all types, even sideburns-I'm usually not attracted at all, to men who don't have any at all), men wearing denim/leather/flannel, long hair on men, sometimes a guy smoking a cigarette/cigar/pipe, thin men in wifebeaters, a man's eyes/face, tattoos on men and some women, piercings, boyish/androgynous looking women who appear to be men at first glance, men with shaved heads/short haircuts, boyish women with short hair, men with dark hair, body hair on men (such as dark hair that covers a man's hands/arms/feet/legs/calves/stomachs/asses/backs/armpits/chest and peaks up over the collar of his shirt or connects to his facial hair like mine does!), men in uniform, certain boots/shoes that men wear, sometimes a bit of a gut on a guy but not obesity as I prefer thin/athletic men like me, muscles on men, intelligence in men and women, a sense of humor, big/thick lips on men, men that are dripping in masculinity, men that are hot and sexy but don't know it, sometimes people's feet if they're clean/well taken care of/pedicured without claw like nails and toenail fungus, a man's deep voice and he's not nelly/camp or fake like that at all, rough/trashy looking queer men that are hot in a nasty way, and a rugged/chiseled handsome guy.

[darkeyes]

A beautifully unblemished fresh complexion.:)