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Justin Chad Taylor
Oct 6, 2009, 10:19 PM
:)In the past two weeks all my girlfriend wants to do is perform oral sex on me. We havn't had vaginal intercourse for a while and I asked her last night that I want to penetrate her and she said she is really enjoying the oral sex. Does anyone have any advice for me? I really need some Pussy:cool:

Long Duck Dong
Oct 6, 2009, 10:31 PM
be patient....... there may be more to this than you are seeing or know about

surrender to her lead and let her call the shots... tell her that you want to be her slave for a night or two, and let her decide what happens sexually... she may well open up more about what is on her mind....

don't push her for vaginal sex..... as its possible she is enjoying taking control and the lead role and showing you that she is more than just a pussy to be fucked....and of course there may be other issues at stake

to be dead honest, the way you have posted, leads me to think that your concern is not about your partner and her desires, wants and needs, but about fucking a pussy and your own sex drive.....

chook
Oct 6, 2009, 11:51 PM
LMFAO.....I'll look at in another sort of logical way, I reckon she's screwed around on you and has caught something.......Think about it!!! Just my :2cents:

Cheers Chook :bigrin:

Long Duck Dong
Oct 6, 2009, 11:55 PM
pokes chook.... I was being delicate lol...... trust you to be blunt and honest lol

Realist
Oct 7, 2009, 9:31 AM
I really don't think Chook should be out in public without adult supervision! He certainly must have failed Diplomacy 101 in school!

That was funny, though!

rissababynta
Oct 7, 2009, 10:19 AM
Sometimes men, and women, just get a little thing in them where they have a streak of only doing one thing for a while. Or it could be that she is REALLY not in the mood to go through the whole physical exersion of sex but she still wants you to feel good. That's happened to me on more than one occasion. No matter what I do, I just really don't feel up to having my crotch pounded...or touched for that matter.

If it lasts much longer and it really starts to bother you, I'd say just straight up ask her if there is a reason why she has only been wanting to perform oral.

rissababynta
Oct 7, 2009, 10:21 AM
to be dead honest, the way you have posted, leads me to think that your concern is not about your partner and her desires, wants and needs, but about fucking a pussy and your own sex drive.....

by the way, i was thinking the same thing, obviously haha.

chub-bi
Oct 7, 2009, 12:27 PM
What is her phone number?

mrplayfuluk
Oct 7, 2009, 1:13 PM
Initially I was with Chub -Bi (!) but I once lived with a girl who had a similar pre occupation with oral. It turned out when I confronted her that she suffered from dyspareunia which makes penetration rather painful and so rather than tell me, she said she preferred 69, but too much of a good thing got boring. So find a moment to ask her when she's in post orgasmic afterglow..... and listen

12voltman59
Oct 7, 2009, 2:10 PM
Echoing the posts of some that your g/f's reason for not wanting to have intercourse might be due to some physical reason--and not that she got some nasty----I had a g/f at one time who had a bad case of endometrioisis and for long stretches of time when it fired up--she was not at all interested in having coitus but did still enjoy other forms of sexual pleasure---and she sure gave me some great pleasure via oral sex.

I am sure that if your g/f has endometriosis---she sure as hell knows that she does---it is not something that there is any doubt about, but she might have some other physical reason as others have noted as to why she does wish to reframe from it.

If there is not some physical reason she is deferring from intercourse----it could be purely something mental going on in her head and that too is every bit as legitimate a reason for her to wish to reframe from having intercourse as is something physical---I say that if you love and respect her--don't think so much about your dick and it's pleasure---think about her and be patient----I am sure that when she is ready to resume having intercourse---if you were patient, understanding and things of that nature in regards to this instead of just being interested in your own thing-----she will be so grateful that you are a great and caring guy--she will make your temporary lack of "nookie" to have been more than well worth it with you guys having some "rock your world catch up sex!"

Push her on it too much if its something going on in her head----you just might find yourself permanently booted to the sidelines and you ain't gettin' no more sweet stuff from her!!!!

Chill out and be patient, at least you are apparently getting some great oral sex from her--that is more than many guys are getting from their ladies!!!

rissababynta
Oct 7, 2009, 2:28 PM
What is her phone number?

LMAO at that one!

Donkey_burger
Oct 7, 2009, 6:40 PM
If she seems about why she doesn't like to be penetrated, maybe she needs to go to the doctor, and both of you need to go to couples/sex counseling. It's been mentioned before that there might be physical or mental reasons for this.

DB :bipride:

foreverbi
Oct 15, 2009, 12:17 PM
You poor poor guy! What is that girl thinking by only giving you a BJ anytime you want it. Care to pass her on???:rolleyes::2cents:

sebax
Oct 15, 2009, 12:29 PM
You poor poor guy! What is that girl thinking by only giving you a BJ anytime you want it. Care to pass her on???:rolleyes::2cents:

jaajajajajajaajaja i know right jaajja..
also, I saw a picture of him and if I were her i'd want him to pound me all the time..... and lets not forget that i'm 99.9% top.. heehehe