View Full Version : what do u guys prefer??
phatcat
Dec 22, 2009, 12:26 PM
I have a few guy friends, and im close to my guy cousins....I've neva heard a man complain about it bein too wet....they say tight is good, but I've heard of it bein too tight...the loose is supposedly not good, but good sometimes, but even I know too loose is not good. Who wants 2 b a loosy...lol...what do u guys prefer? Which is best and why????
fredtyg
Dec 22, 2009, 1:13 PM
Too loose is certainly not good. I've been with two women who were so loose I had to rub the bottom side of my cock against the back (bottom when she's lying down) of her pussy just to make contact. The first one had just given birth some weeks before and I guess that really stretches it out. She must have been 3 or 4" in diameter. Made it hard to get any sensation.
The second one I assumed had given birth sometime relatively soon before we were together, although she never mentioned it. Her vagina was just like the first one: Probably 3 or 4" across and it made it real difficult to get any feeling. I didn't want to hurt her feelings so never asked her if she'd given birth.
I hope that's only from giving birth. It would be a real shame if that's a natural condition for some gals.
rissababynta
Dec 22, 2009, 1:18 PM
Well, by the time a woman is in good enough physical condition to start having sex again after giving birth, the vagina is supposed to be as close to being normal as possible, if not completely back to the way it was. So...yeah good luck with that bud haha.
Anyways, the only thing that I've ever heard my husband complain about is that sometimes I do get too wet. It mainly only happens if he makes me cum first. It's true though, I do tend to get really wet when I cum haha. He has had to try a bit harder in cases like this because he doesnt' get a lot of friction. Other than that, I've never heard him complain about much else when it comes to a vagina, whether mine or someone elses.
fredtyg
Dec 22, 2009, 1:48 PM
He has had to try a bit harder in cases like this because he doesnt' get a lot of friction.
I could see how being too wet could take away from the pleasure for a guy. Don't recall ever running into that problem myself, though. Maybe I just didn't turn the women I've been with on enough?:bigrin:
phatcat
Dec 22, 2009, 11:32 PM
Too loose is certainly not good. I've been with two women who were so loose I had to rub the bottom side of my cock against the back (bottom when she's lying down) of her pussy just to make contact. The first one had just given birth some weeks before and I guess that really stretches it out. She must have been 3 or 4" in diameter. Made it hard to get any sensation.
The second one I assumed had given birth sometime relatively soon before we were together, although she never mentioned it. Her vagina was just like the first one: Probably 3 or 4" across and it made it real difficult to get any feeling. I didn't want to hurt her feelings so never asked her if she'd given birth.
I hope that's only from giving birth. It would be a real shame if that's a natural condition for some gals.
Lol that would b a shame...but like rissa said. It should b bak to normal...so it possible she was loose before the baby.
notsostr8
Dec 23, 2009, 1:45 AM
Wow!.... ummm,.. too tight a fit would likely not be good, I'll liken that to too dry. As for wet, when I'm with my wife I enjoy making her cum first anyway, so she's deliciously wet by the time I enter her... never a problem for me... :bigrin: Years ago I dated a girl whom was a "squirter"... now THAT was someting amazing... like a sexual baptism with each orgasm. :tongue: Overall, wetter is better for me!... as for loose, there are myriad positions that one can have intercourse in that can *ahem* take up the slack... be inventive! :upside: or :rotate:
tommyswing
Jan 11, 2010, 5:27 PM
I love a pussy to be really wet, there's nothing better than a wet one when I'm doing oral on her. The smell, the taste, the sensation. I don't mind a lack of friction and I don't mind a loose one. My only concern is if I'm lost in there, I know I'm not rocking her world, but as someone pointed out,certain positions can allow depper penertration and better friction
clovermoon
Jan 11, 2010, 5:42 PM
Never thought that they could be too wet, who knows maybe I'll find one someday that I will think that. I knew a woman that did Kegal excercises and that thing was amazine! I highly recommend them, your man will thank you again and again.
Lunatic1966
Jan 11, 2010, 6:36 PM
My wife is just tight enough with a beautiful looking pussy. She has lately been getting wetter than what she use too and I love it, a nice wet pussy to tell you you are doing your job properly. :three::three:Our female lover has a bigger (looser) pussy but not too loose. She is a squirter and man do I love that. She jushes when she cums, getting everything wet. Like someone said before "what a shower" she provides. Our favorite thing to do is for my wife and I to lay beneather her while she masturbates and she cums all over our faces and my wifes tits. Then comes the enjoyable task of cleaning her up. My wife usually cums a couple more times when our girlfriend and I go about licking her head to toe...:tongue:....wow...gotta go, I feel something starting to throb!!!!!
rutemptedalso
Jan 11, 2010, 6:53 PM
Well, by the time a woman is in good enough physical condition to start having sex again after giving birth, the vagina is supposed to be as close to being normal as possible, if not completely back to the way it was. So...yeah good luck with that bud haha.
Anyways, the only thing that I've ever heard my husband complain about is that sometimes I do get too wet. It mainly only happens if he makes me cum first. It's true though, I do tend to get really wet when I cum haha. He has had to try a bit harder in cases like this because he doesnt' get a lot of friction. Other than that, I've never heard him complain about much else when it comes to a vagina, whether mine or someone elses.
I love it when my wife squirts. It does get everthing a little wet but knowing that she is enjoying sex that much really excites me. Makes me want to do it forever.
happylife
Jan 12, 2010, 12:54 AM
Too tight - Came across one girl that way. OMG, talk about a pointless afternoon. I mean, im sure some other guy could have got in but I was just too big for that really tight pussy.
Too loose - Came across one girl like this as well. The only tight part was entering her but once you in it was like a black hole. Sucks up everything. Not much feeling at all. I didn't say anything, I just did long stokes to enter her over and over.
Too wet - Come on, there is nowhere a woman can get to wet for me. :bigrin: As the saying goes, the wetter the better. My ex-girlfriend cums quick (when i take my time with her) so the bed can get pretty wet. I love every minute of it! Good thing were bestfriends. :bigrin:
Well thats my :2cents:
Giggles100
Jan 12, 2010, 5:45 AM
I prefer wet. I like it when the girl is completely turned on and oh so wet before I enter. :bigrin: I haven't gone out with pregnant girls or girls with babies so never had experience with what happens after childbirth. I guess that will come with age really (I'm in my mid 20's).
Apleasureseeker
Jan 12, 2010, 5:45 AM
If the woman really loves SEX, purely by itself and not as some sort of social contract, and if she's really open and communicative and independant, then pussy particulars aren't so important. Too wet is better than too dry (and squirting is great!), but dry just calls for a little lube. I've only encoutered too tight twice, but that's curable with a little massage and foreplay. Too loose can be a problem, expecially if a guy is wearing a condom. I had this problem with a girl, and I literally felt NOTHING. It could have been curable if she'd just paid a little attention to it, either by deliberately flexing, or doing Kegel exercises on her own, or just admitting there was a problem and exploring alternate play, but she insisted that I was just being mean to her. She was very selfish and passive sexually. But if this is multiple choice: wet & tight.
just4mefc
Jan 12, 2010, 3:38 PM
I truly have no preference. I am thick enough (not bragging) that I have never had a woman who was too loose. If too dry or too tight well lube fixes that and TOO WET? wtf could never be too wet! guess I just really like pussy
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