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Sorry, to keep attaching phobia to a word because you have a have a problem with how others choose to stay safe is pretty much ludicrous. People make choices, those that want to chase "bugs" can do so but they should always tell any sexual partner about their status. If a potential sex partner chooses not to sleep with them that is not phobic it's choosing not to take the chance of catching a deadly disease for a moment of pleasure.

People can say what you want about statitistics but the honest answer is you either get it or you don't. Each encounter with a person who has HIV/AIDS is another chance to catch it.


I am not a "pozphobic" person, I have no problems hugging people with AIDS or caring for people with AIDS, I have done so before in my life and I'm sure I will do so again but I damned sure would not choose to have sexual relations with someone with HIV/AIDS as I have three children and a future with my partner to consider. My pleasure of the moment is not more important than the pleasure they will gain by having me in their lives.

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Sure I'll get accused of censorship LOL, DILLIGAF? It was nothing but a war of a few on a few about a word. A blog is an opinion. You don't get to call someone a name for a life choice that doesn't impact you at all. Sorry boys, no more free goes at Aeon and Fran and yours truly.

why cant i find a guy to have adult fun with.

This past week I decided to create a new profile on another site I've been on for years because I felt my original had grown stagnant. It was honest, very simple to begin with, because that's how I am. Started getting some responses but was mind-boggled by a couple of members that I recognized as having previously been with,coming after me like crazed animals in heat; I mean....constant e-mails.....push push push...."let's get together now!" It was obvious to me they did not recognize me but I recognized them & saw my opportunity to exact some revenge because they had been game -playing bad encounters, so I toyed with them, lured them in. One even had the audacity to post a phony profile pic. Well, when I felt the time had come...I revealed myself and pulled the rug out! The 2nd one was crushed just a short while ago....he was almost begging to be with me! There's a lesson to be learned here....be real when trying to connect with someone. I feel good right now.:shades:

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Sometimes we doubt our own self worth.

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Asking for ideas or for help on this matter. My Wife has known for yrs that Im bi and is ok with it alongs I dont go out to play around with men. She knows I look at men but thats all I can do. Here's my thing as of latey I have been having dreams of having sex with the wife and another guy in bed at the same time. Seeing the wife going down on another guy is hot to me and as she is going down on him Im dreaming of rubbing his balls as shes sucking him off or that Im fingering his ass as he is fucking my wife. Please help me with this..

Asking for ideas or for help on this matter. My Wife has known for yrs that Im bi and is ok with it alongs I dont go out to play around with men. She knows I look at men but thats all I can do. Here's my thing as of latey I have been having dreams of having sex with the wife and another guy in bed at the same time. Seeing the wife going down on another guy is hot to me and as she is going down on him Im dreaming of rubbing his balls as shes sucking him off or that Im fingering his ass as he is fucking my wife. Please help me with this..